heart break in many ways, help me figure this out.

I met this guy for the first time at a rave. I had been talking to him on my space for about a month and I really like him. Anyway at the rave we dance and he kissed me. I lost count on how many times he kissed me after the 3rd. I really really started to like him. The thing is he is 4 years older than me, and I don’t know? When we went to the coffee bar room this random chick came to say hi to him, he had his arm around my waist and my around his shoulder. He kept kissing my cheek, and neck and stuff. Well after she gave him a hug she asked, “is this your girlfriend?” and he quickly said, “no.” I looked at him like What the F*CK! She turned to me and said, “Your cute.” Then she walked away. So we dance and he kept kissing me! To give you an idea afterwards my lips were numb for about an hour. So he gave me his number at the end of the night so we text eachother now. It was two days ago right. OK so his friend…lets call him Bredford, he is a huge stoner and player he is my friend too. Tonight My best friend (Lets call her bevus) calls me and tells me That The guy that I made out with, (Lets call him Butthead) Well she asked me if I wanted to know and I said “yes tell me!” She told me that Buttheads best friend (lets call him Dumbass) Told Bevus that Butthead is a player like Bredford, and he likes to mess around with girls and that he was at the mall now with a girl. I started crying and now I don’t know what to do, Bevus felt so bad, and she said that he kept telling her how much he likes me and stuff.

   Please. what should I do. I need help! I am stuck, and I thought he really liked me. And he told me he likes me. HE went on and on about how he hates liars, and cheaters, and I asked him what is his biggest fear is and he said, "Heartbreak" 
 I am so sad, and I need to know what to do... please help me
Answer #1

You just met him…you cant believe EVERYTHING he said to you! Girls really need to understand guys actions…just because he singled you out, kissed you till your lips went numb, had his arm around you doesnt mean he wanted to date you. I see this a lot from guys, and its sad how girls mistaken that for a guy liking them, and wanting to make them his girlfriend. If you could be alittle fly on the wall, and you went to the rave to watch him, you’d probably see that he picks up a lot of girls, and does the very same thing with them. Hun, dont mistake a guys actions for signs that he wants to date you, because when a guy is that quick to make a move on a chick, hes most likely a player. Hes too old for you anyway!

Answer #2

you have to move on,for now, find another guy, keep dating pretend your not effected by what he has done, made you up set, you have to ignore him and if you see him in the street say im sorry I carnt talk I have to go now, it always works, and act as if you dont even need him in your life, your so much happier without him, then wait a little then when you know he is interested again make a move but slower this time, and if he keeps upsetting you do it again, if all else fails hes not worth it, theres a lot more hot guys out there trust me, you carnt see them all in 1 day give it time, you dererve better

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