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What do I do if he put us on a break?

HELP!! My Boyfriend Taylor and I have been dating about 1yr and 4 months. Well last night he said that he thinks that we need to go on a break. He said that we were still boyfriend and girlfriend and that he wasnt breaking up with me, he just needs to make sure that Im the one that he needs to be with. What do I do?? He told me that this wasnt going to be like for a couple of days but more like a week. We have been together for so long and I love him so much and I know that he loves me. We make each other so happy so I guess I just dont understand how he could think that Im not the one that he needs to be with. Why wouldnt I be? What do I do? Do i call him? Do i let him call me? Please any advice will help.

Thank You. God Bless

  • Ashley
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Answer #1

If he wants a little space, give it to him. He can call you when he is ready to. Don’t force or rush him.

Answer #2

its just his way of making sure u are the one dont worry im going through that now we still talk everyday and see eachother almost once a day for a little bit. but we are starting to find out that we are ment to be and maybe that will be the same way with u. if not then it was better to find out now then later that the two of u werent ment to be.

Answer #3

If he truly loves then he is just making sure that he wants to well live his life with you so let him have his space and let him call you.

Answer #4

I’m sorry to say it but 90% of the time when a guy tells you that he wants to break up in a nice way.

So take the break and see how he acts and if it seems like he still wants you then take it

Answer #5

He only said he wanted a temporary break. Giving him space and time to ponder on his love for you may just be a good thing. What’s better then a guy telling you he loves you, because he KNOWS he loves you?

And yes. Let him call you. In the meantime, find something to do to keep yourself busy. So you wouldn’t spend your free time worrying about the issue :)

Answer #6

if you love something yeah let it go if it comes bak to yu it was urs from the beginning if he doesnt..he never was.

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