He has a girlfriend

So I met this guy, he is perfect! There is one problem. He has a girlfriend. I don’t know what to do, but the thing is, he flirts back and when he talks to me he is always like if I didnt have a girlfriend I would be all over you…blah blah blah stuff like that right? So anyway…he told me things are not working out, thats why he is saying all that…I think. But umm my friends are giving me so much crap For it, and saying o he lives to far, even though its like 15 mins away. Give me a break. Right? I don’t know if I should keep going for him or not? Its so confusing. I need help!

Answer #1

Trust me, from most of our points of view, its NOT confusing! You still seem to be clueless very about guys! Why do you keep putting yourself in vulnerable situations? If you dont want to end up getting hurt…again, back off as tinatodder said! Any guy that fools around behind his girlfriends back is NOT a decent, trusting person! So what if hes flirting with you…your probably not the only one. Just because some guy gives you alittle attention, doesnt mean you gotta pursue him…especially when the flirt is already taken! Hes disrespecting his girlfriend, he’ll do it to you too! This guy is a MAJOR PLAYER. He may be nice and he may even like you, but basically, he is nothing more than a guy who cheats on his girlfriend. Are you sure you want to be the next girlfriend that he cheats on because, believe me, it will happen. Second, if he was your boyfriend, could you trust him? He is extremely untrustworthy and absolutely not ready for commitment. I mean, look how he is handling the commitment he made to his girlfriend.

Ask yourself: How did she get to be his girlfriend? He flirted with her, kissed her and told her he loved her. Right? Then, he starts fooling around with you. Do you really think he likes you better? Sorry, but you are nothing more than another notch on his belt!!

Answer #2

I totally agree with angelfire2708, cciinntthhiiaa and tinatodder4 just back off before you like him more and then it will be harder.

Answer #3

OMG!!!I I totally agree with you angel fire!!! I’m going through the same type of situation and your advice saved me sooo much heart break!!! Your a friggin genius it all makes perfect sense Thanx a bunchez!!!

Answer #4

keep trying and keep hope. PLay your cards right hes yours…be clever. you can do it bud.

Good Luck

PS: my advice…play the “best friend” role and move in that way once theyve broken up.

Answer #5

STOP! dont go for him! he has a girlfriend, and if hes doing this to her, what makes you think that he wont do the same to u? I mean, hes flirting with you and he has a girlfriend. If you were his girlfriend, he would be flirting with another girl. and, by the way, just because he flirts doesnt mean he likes u…trust me, I’ve met guys like that.

Answer #6

he’s taken. you need to back off. if he’s telling you how he would be all over you when he has a girlfriend, don’t you think he’d do that to other girls too if you and him were in a relationship? get a clue. he’s a player. he’s lying to you and his girlfriend. accept he’s taken by a lovely woman and go find your own guy.

Answer #7

His girlfriend is his problem, not yours. If he flirts with you then follow your own feelings.

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