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He cheated on her with me, what should I do?

great. so this guy and me just started talking again, we got in the biggest fight ever and now after a month we are easing back into a friendship again. it was all cool, I foun dou the had a girlfriend which sucked but it’s alright, I don’t like him like that anway. well we are chilling out after school, the usual when we get into this intense conversation. all of a sudden he starts tracing his fingers over my hand… weird right? well I just blew it off and I asked him if he loved her. and he said no. then all of a sudden he kissed me and said “I’ve got to go, see you later.” and just left. I was so pissed and hurt that he would do that! I got mad at him and he started yelling at me and I started yelling at him and no wi don’t know if I should give him another chance or if I should tell his girlfriend… confused. (oh, he more or less told me he didn’t care about her and would rather have me and I told him that will never happen… I’ve told him this many times.)

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Answer #1

Give him another chance for what…a friendship? If you dont like him “that way”, then why would you get mad when he kissed you, and said he had to go? If he cant take a hint, or except the fact that he cant have you, then trying to have a friendship isnt going to happen. You cant be friends with someone who has feelings for you. Your better off finding someone who will respect you.

Answer #2

1: a kiss is really nothing to get mad about 2: a lil kiss isnt really major thing so it cant really be counted as cheating, a lot of my friends kiss me and they have boyfriend’s. I know its not the same because he likes you but its still just a kiss at the end of the day. 3: another chance at a friendship? yes! im good friends with a girl that I have really strong feelings for and she tells me she don’t like me that way too but we still get along fine, she knows how I feel but we both don’t wana lose contact with each other over it, and I find its the most effective way of getting over it. a relationship? no! because you said you don’t like him that way.

overall, yea you shud stay friends with him, but you shud also tell his girlfriend because she does have a rite to know.

hope this helps, good luck.

Answer #3

1: a kiss is really nothing to get mad about 2: a lil kiss isnt really major thing so it cant really be counted as cheating, a lot of my friends kiss me and they have boyfriend’s. I know its not the same because he likes you but its still just a kiss at the end of the day. 3: another chance at a friendship? yes! im good friends with a girl that I have really strong feelings for and she tells me she don’t like me that way too but we still get along fine, she knows how I feel but we both don’t wana lose contact with each other over it, and I find its the most effective way of getting over it. a relationship? no! because you said you don’t like him that way.

overall, yea you shud stay friends with him, but you shud also tell his girlfriend because she does have a rite to know.

hope this helps, good luck

Answer #4

Then you need to stop putting yourself in the situation for him to kiss you.

Answer #5

well it’s a big thing for me becaus ei don’t want him kissing me if he’s dating someone, I don’t want him kissing my anyway.

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