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Having feelings for my best friend who's taken!

Well like I kinda started having feelings for my best guy friend and well..we are really close. We can probably tell each other anything seriously but like he has a girlfriend so I fell really bad fo even thinking about liking him. Its kinda interesting because I met him through his best guy friend who I liked at the time but now I obviously dont. He says im his best friend thats a girl and we’re both into church and stuff and get together for bible study twice a week. Which just makes me like him more and feel bad about his girlfriend..which by the way lives in a different state. His parents are divorced he live here in tn with his mom and his girlfriend is in louisana where his dad lives. He has said somethings that made me think he could like me…like that he thought I was really cool so much that he wishes his girlfriend had some of the characteristics I have. Then a few weeks late he said he wasnt sure he felt the same way bout his girlfriend that he use to and he’s not sure she’s the one…but thats his confused and is haing feelings toward another person. Any advice? Lol

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Answer #1

Just wait it out. If he leaves his girlfriend then awesome. Totally tell him. But, I wouldnt tell him until he was single. It just, seems more fair I guess, for her, you and him. If you had a guy, who lived in another state, I bet you wouldnt want his female best friend to tell him she liked him. That would suck. But who knows. Maybe that other person is you. Then again, it might not be. Good Luck, ^_^

Answer #2

Hey don’t worry, if you guys keep a close relationship, he’ll probalbly tell you how he really feels about you, & maybe tell you your the special one he’s been looking for, remember NEVER give up on him, because that special time may come… <3

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