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Have you ever felt like you cant remember who you are anymore?

I know it sounds strange but im 16 and when I was like little I new exsactly what I liked, what I didnt, wasnt scared, spoke my mind but then I got older and learned sometimes you have to fake reactions to please people and shut out your emotions and fake smile, manipulate situations because thats how the world goes round but then I sudenly realized the other do, half, infact more then half of me isnt me, I was just wondering if anyone ever felt like theyve changed for the worse and how to get back to how they ust to be? x

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Answer #1

its a phase you’re going through…its funny cause im 16 too but its a phase teenagers go through to find who they truly are…I’ve been there, I changed from being trustworthy to not trusted at all so I decided to have people trust me again cause I liked having the respect…hell, im probably still going through this “phase” but make sure you always keep a little direction of where you wanna be 5-10 years from now…you have to ask yourself and even people around you if youve changed and how…if you feel that you have to shut out your emotions then thats not good…find someone that you could be real open to…that always helps…last but not least you have to truly look at yourself for a while and ask, “Who am I?”…ignore the fake part, look at the real you and its needs…hope it helped…

Answer #2

I’m going through the same thing too and I’ll be 16 in a few month. It feels like when I’m with certain people I have to fake being happy even thought they annoy the crap out of me and I fake laughing with most people just to get a long with them.

Answer #3

im going through the same thing im 16 to :)

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