Have a man but intrested in others

Ok so I have a boyfriend and I am happy wit him…well I think I am. Im not a slut or anything…he’s been my only boyfriend and we’ve been together for almost 4 years. I love him but when I see a good looking guy I check him out and if he were to talk to me I dont say Im taken I just go wit the flow. I wouldn cheat on him but I just have the urge to talk to other guys and get their attention. I dont know why. My boyfriend is super controlling but everythin is fine between us. but yet I really want to talk to others but not like cheat on my man. why am I feeling this way? no negative shiit please.

Answer #1

We are only humans and you girls are doing what you were made to do. It has been this way forever and is bigger than any of us. All animal species do the same thing so they can survive. It all has to do with our biological evolution and the rules of courting. You are fighting evolutionary forces that go back into prehistoric times.

Even if you stay married forever and never cheat it will always be present pulling at you.

Answer #2

hi…this coming from a guys opinion is ok…except for the part that your not letting them know you have a man…I have a girlfriend and tend to check out girls a little bit and she does the same but we both know the bounderies…if you want guys to give you the kind of attention your man is lacking after so long…then thats not right…when a guy looks at you and is pretty interseted in what you look like…there not after a nice convo to get attention of u…there looking to score or hoping for a phone number… if you wanna talk to guys just get some male friends..and let them know there just friends…u can perv on them if you like but not letting them know you have a man is a little slack…I don’t think your a s1ut or anything like that for doing what you said but if your man was chatting to other chicks and just going with the flow about not have a partner how would that make you feel… just think about it ok cause I know id be pretty upset with my partner if she did that to me.. but I hope all is well in your relationship and everything works out in the end for you guys..peace ;)

Answer #3

holy shi*! I thought I was the only one! lol I’ve been with my man for almost 5 years now and we just got married and I sometimes feel that way too. We even have a baby together so I always feel so horrible. I know what you mean. I wouldn’t ever cheat on my man either. We were each other’s firsts and we got together at 15 and 16. We’re in love and all that but I think after a while, we just want attention fromother men because after so long being with someone the guy tends to forget that you need a lot of attention, so when other men give you that much desired attention, you want to hear good things about yourself and like to talk to guys who give you attention. I think,…and hope that its normal. otherwise, you and I are in big trouble! lol

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