How would you handle someone with a super high ego that's super spoiled?

You just described my brother…the way I handle him, I just ignore him…no matter how hard you try to talk to them, love them, or anything in between….they are always going to be thinking they are god gift to the world & everyone owes them something…like duh they come first above all others!

like Miguel said…try to avoid them unless asked a direct question…other then that i would go my separate ways!

If they’re unpleasant and you aren’t required to associate with them, I just wouldn’t bother doing so. There’s no point in keeping someone around or having them in your life if you don’t quite like them.

I wouldn’t.

I would most likely have nothing to do with them.

Ah, narcissistic personalities, arent they fun. See, the thing is, beneath the narcissism is an insecurity (one they may or may not be aware of). So I try to keep in mind that if people are so trying to make a point, beneath it all is a real fear that they arent that great after all, and someone will find that out.

Don’t bother with that person. They are not interested in you or anyone else. It’s an indication the person has no responsibility, not even for himself. It also indicates he’s boosting his ego to feel important and thinks he deserves whatever he wants. The day will come when he will get his just rewards, nothing and loneliness.

thank you everyone for the help. the sad part is its my best friend but he use to not be like that.

efff i would slap them if they disrespect me and show me they are spoiled…Spoiled people is not in my dictionary…so there is no place for them in my life.