What does it mean when guys treat you?

Like pay for you (e.g. cinema tickets, train tickets..), does it mean anything?

Answer #1

Usually if a guy goes out of his way and spends his own money on you he has feelings for you. Its also a very gentleman like move.

Answer #2

But what if your friends?… But not like a very close ones? Does that mean they also have feelings for you or is it just being a gentlemen? :S

Answer #3

It depends some guys are just naturally gentalmen and feel obligated to pay. If that doesn’t seem in his nature but he’s paying none the less he most likely has feelings for you. Is he giving any other signs?

Answer #4

Well it does seem like it his nature… He did buy us popcorn as for the group. But that was when he liked someone and wanted to treat her without being to obvious. However it was just his birthday, and he told me his going shopping somewhere 2 hours away by train, so he asked me to go with him so he wont get lost, saying he’d pay for my train ticket and he didnt ask me to ask my brother or my other friends to come along. Which is a bit out to me cos my friends are also his, kind of… but he is friends with my brother and he usually tell me to tell my brother to go, especially when were going somewhere where all of us in our group of friends has been wanting to go to.

Also, we’ve started being close together. We always have a laugh, a joke there and then. The problem is I dont want anything, as his MY BESTFRIEND’S BOYFRIEND. I dont want to develope feelings for him cos its not right. At the moment they seem like going downhill, she refuse to see him, and they seem to only spend time together whem im there with them.

I dont really know if they still talk, but according to him, he rarely hear from her. I also remember when we went to the cinema, and I brought a guy along, and he paid for me, he was partnered with my other friend cos its 2 for 1 tickets, and he didnt pay for her ticket though. As I remember

Answer #5

YEA IT MEAN ITS FREE UP’S FOR YOU

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