Guys help?

Just because 70% of the girls in your country are like that, doesnt mean you have to follow in their shoes. I guess you came to the wrong country asking for advice!

Another thing… condoms are NOT 100% effective!! They break, and they slip off. Girls still get pregnant, and still contract STDs.

I dont live in the usa so its not like that …70% girls in my contry are like this…and fawesfire there is a thing calles a condom!

Nice call ichibanarky!!

I feel so sad for young girls such as yourself. You have a very low self esteem, and DESPERATE for attention. Trust me when I say that sex isnt going to fill your needs. Sex is ONLY a quick fix, its NOT a cure all!!

You are not mature enough to cope with the very real risks and responsibilities of sexual behavior.

could not have said it better myself ichibanarky…

dear Lord, grow up and remember, sex IS NOT A CURE ALL FOR ANYTHING. (except possibly getting pregnant) look…you’re running the risk of getting pregnant, getting a STD, loosing your self respect and being viewed as nothing more then an attention seeking wh*re.

In the name of all that is holy, seek mental help.

one dress sexy 2.flirt with him find out if he likes you if you arn’t sure keep doing it till you know for sure you may have to approcach him first start french kissing him that’ll lead to sex this will always work on me if I like the girl

it’s slutty and shallow, you should really make yourself a better person and decide what would really make you happy in life.

why would you want to do that its sluty

There’s a name for girls like you…

Why don’t you forget the party and go find your missing self-respect…

make sure you want to eather get him to argee to do it get him drunk which is wrong

Why do you want that?

okay. Seriously, do you know how many girls do this? If it’s what she wants, just tell her how to do it. It might be slutty or shallow or whatever you want to call it but your judging and that’s pretty low too. So just shut up and stop telling her she has no self respect. There are many girls that “hook up” at a party. Just take control :)