When you have guys that is 5 yrs older than you are but in love with him.... what do you do?

hah, thats not much , my parents were 12 yrs apart :]

At your age, that’s illegal and disturbing at best…at worst, he’s looking for some jail time.

Um….first of all it doesnt matter how biq or small the gap is if you two love each other that’s all that matters. people of course are going to judge and say you’re wrong or nasty ,etc but just ignore the ignorant people. and say ** you no dont say that but yeah ignore them

Having known a guy that went to jail for statutory from my high school…if she really loves him, she’ll break it off till she’s legal and not jailbait….

at your age i think you really should be wondering why this guy is with you. i’m sorry but i get why you would like an older guy but why does he like you? its harsh but true.

I’m thinking the same thing….WHY would an 18 year old WANT to be with a 13 year old?? Is he so immature, that he only wants middle schoolers??

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if you are under age, then you should try to be careful in public.. trust only the ones that YOU really and truly KNOW… just be on the down low until you’ve reached 18… but if you are over 18 and he is five years older than you are.. then there is nothing wrong with it :) if you are in love with him and he is in love with you.. then so be it :) let ur love shine hun :) but some older men tend to be a bit controlling.. be aware of that.. dnt let it get too far.. let him know his limits.. i am with an older man myself.. and i am very happy with it :) all the best for you :)

thank you so much …. but the real reason is we both work together he’s a male model and i’m a model we just kinda clicked… do you see what i’m trying to tell you?

Hey! i skipped 2 grades

I think age doesn’t matter, if you love him then you love him. Just make sure he is understanding of the fact that you are younger and doesn’t make you do anything you are uncomfortable doing. As for your parents, sit them down and tell them but if they begin to get mad or worried, say that you’ll invite him over for dinner and they can get to know him :)

Skipping two grades does not necessarily make you (13) ready for a relationship with an 18 year old. At that age boys are already thinking of S3X and there is no WAY that a 13 year old is ready for that.

And I will NOT be convinced on that opinion.

Also you are FIRSTLY a minor and secondly UNDER the age of consent. If you do have s3x he will probably be charged with statutory r@pe.

And a guy that at age 18 who goes for a 13 year old sounds just REALLY creepy

Yes, but your dad probably didn’t start the relationship while your mother was still a child did he?

1st he should stick to dating WOMEN not CHILDREN. You are very young and dating someone who is older then you will not help parent/ child relationship. He may go to jail if your parents find out and THEY WILL FIND OUT SOONER OR LATER. Did you know that even if you are with this guy for a period of time and then you guys break up and your parents find out after the fact, they can still press charges and get him arrested. IF which I doubt, he is soooo in love with you he will be able to wait till you are of an age that you can make wise decisions for yourself and old enough so that he is not able to get arrested for being with you.

definitely.. just as long as youre happy with him, and he is treating you right.. then its fine.. just be careful.. u dnt wanna get into any trouble :)

oh ok ew now i know what your talking about

i don’t want a physical realtionship i well wait untill i am at least 17 years of age… that’s not what i had in mind at all but from the age gap i didn’t want it to be weird and dump him because of that… plus i am not going to have sx until i am married and on my honeymoon…

i was in a realtionship wif my brothers best friend well actualy both of them it didnt end well one was a creep the other one well lets just say i didnt let him get to far

i think that 13-18 is stretching it a little but my boyfriend is about 41/2 years older. he is my best friend, we do everything together. our parents both know as well. Its the best thing i’ve ever done. but dont be with him just because he’s “cool” because he’s older. I think if you really really love someone it doesnt matter. however, it doesnt really seem like you know this guy. so just be careful (especially on a physical level) good luck ! hope i helped !

hmm they started dating when my mom was 16, my dad was like 28, first child when my mom was 18

but then again, now adays LAWS are much diff! so dont do nothing yew can get in trouble for..