i'm assuming your in middle school or highschool. HONESTLY what do you have to loose? absolutely nothing. getting to know someone can be extremely tricky because you dont know what to talk about since you DONT KNOW THEM. if you have anything in common what so ever, talk about that. even if it's about the same teacher you have. it gets a convo started. compliment him maybe, once the convo starts. just tallllllk, like you always do. do overthink anything! say something random about the day your having or what your going to do, but dont give too much info, let it be a little mystery. you dont have to give your whole life story yet. TEXTING is great for getting to know someone. DONT tell him you like him first, NEVER do that. jussst be casuall like you talk to guys everyday of your life, and that he's not your priority. if he likes you, then great that could be the start to something new (: but if he doesn't, he'll probably forget a few months down the road if you even ask him if he does. and if he truelly doesnt like you. DONT let him know you like him, that would be awkward and you dont want that. and it's best to know if he likes you or not because if he doesn't, you can move on and not waste your time. and the oddds of him not liking you could be pretty slim, so go for it. you have nothing to loose.
Well, me being a guy, I'm not sure how well I can tackle this but I would try my very best to get over my shyness as I wouldn't want to miss the chance of talking to someone I can possibly end up being with :)
Try to have something to say before-hand, in case you feel like you might run out of words to say. If you do run out of words, ask questions and try to pitch in the occasional hand motion to show that you're interested in what he says! You really don't wanna pass up the chance of being with someone, do you? If not then get over your fears as you have nothing to lose and so much to gain :D.
if u are certain about this, then you just have to suck it up and approach him or when he talks to you, of course.. dnt just stare and drool.. lol.. :) just relax and pretend like its not a big deal... when its finally done with, run home, scream, jump and sing aloud in your room! lol.. :) or u both can exchange cell numbers and can be textn eachother a lot more. that'd be fun :) i know u can do it!
Aww thats cute X) Well wouldn't you totally be upset with yourself if you let this opportunity pass you by?! Omg I can not tell you how many girls ~wish~ their crush would go as far to even NOTICE them. =) lol, if you dont like to do the talking steer the subject over getting to know HIM. It's most likely that if you can get him to open up, it'll be MUCH easier for you to open up too X)
When your shy the easiest way to get to know someone is when your not face to face, emails, facebook, myspace, text messages, letter etc.
You don't have to ask him directly, you can ask one of his friends or you can look for his profile somewhere.
Just talk to him!! Find some thing you have in common (ask around) and just be cool. Good luck!!!
true but im shy of asking him for his cell #...id feel like a retard jst going up to him... :)
thank :D im gonna try to on moday since i have no schol tmr :)
your welcome, i hope this helps!!!!
thnx :) and yea highschool!