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Okay so, I hate my grandmother's boyfriend. He's so ignorant towards me, I can't even stand to be in the same room as him either. He want's to take my grandma away from us, she's the only grandparent I have and the very few family members that actually talks to me, she revolves her life around him like she wasn't going to have me help prepare Thanksgiving dinner even though I've been doing it since I was 9 or 10 because he was there, he calls me a whore for no reason and today he called me disrespectful, immature and a mouthy tramp and I didn't say more than like 5 words to him. I am always respectful to people I don't know, I'm pretty mature for my age and when I want to be and I didn't even say anything mean to him! I even stay at my grandma's house to stay with my great grandmother so they can go out, but he treats me bad and does everything for everyone but absolutely nothing for me. What should I do about how I feel? I constantly tell people I don't really like him but they never take me seriously.
If your none of what he accuses you of...confront him when he says it. Ask him what grounds of proof or expertise he has or is he just jealous of the relationship you have with your grandmother. The truth will reveal itself hon, it always does at one point or another if your not afraid to approach it. It may end He loves your grandma and you love your grandma and he's going to have to live with it like it or not. But I would tell him like me or not if you expect me to respect you, you better respect me...I've been more a part of my grandmas life then you and I care who and what she gets tangled up with it....so watch it buster!!!
I'd talk to your parents and then your grandmother. There is no point in talkin somthing like this out with the guy doing it cause he won't care to much and probly blame you more. You also can't really blame your grandmother from what you say she's love drunk. Just try to talk it out with your parents and if you really have to tell your grandmother you won't go see her as much if this is whats going to be kept up. Closure always helps in the long run.
talk to her tell her EVERYTHING be alone with her and be VERY serious when you tell her and even though he tells you that you need to realize hes crazy or something you arent immature,a whore, disrespectful, or a mouthy tramp none at all not even close:)
have a talk with him tell him how you feel and talk to your grandma too if she cares about you she will do something about it i hope this helps if not just ingore him he just seems rude maybe even go to a councler about it
I don't feel comfortable with talking to people especially since I barely know the guy and I've told my grandma I don't like him, she's around when he says stuff :/ my mom won't take me to a counselor.
"Your far older then me...and I'll bet you got more skeletons in your closet then I could ever imagine to have. and you don't want me digging ...LOL
Okay, thanks for the help! :)
your welcome:)
