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I had a couple of dates with this cute girl, and last night we went pretty far, but no intercourse. As I was going down there, she smelled like an armpit, the odor was very strong. I slept over, and told her I would call her tommorow, but I'm thinking this is a dealbreaker. It is turning me off. Should I just say we should be friends, how do you end it, or is there a way to approach it without her hating me?
Kudos to you for at least inquiring about the right thing to do here. You sound like you would like to be a sensitive guy about this but aren't sure how.
I'd give the girl another shot--spend more time with her and the next time you are in the position to notice an odor, you're just going to have to tell her. You can be polite and gentle about it and maybe the two of you can figure out how to help her out.
The vagina is indeed a self cleaning thing, so don't suggest douching. You said she smelled like an armpit, which leads me to believe it may not have neccessarily been her vagina that had the foul odor, but maybe some prespiration (sweat) from that general area.
Just say, "I think you're beautiful and I like you and want to be intimate. I've noticed that there is a strong odor coming from you and I thought you should be aware of it." Just straight forward and polite. Treat her the way you'd want to be treated if a girl thought that your genitals had a very bad odor.
Ya, she'll be embarrassed and all, but ultimately it will help her to know. I think we girls are always worried that we may be offending with our odor, but we don't really know how it's supposed to smell so there is no way of knowing if we're especially bad or not.
I know a girl who had an odor problem and she tried applying her deoderant (regular, underarm deoderant) between the creases of where he legs meet her vagina and it solved her problem. She was just kind of sweaty down there.
There are products out there like FDS (Feminine Deoderant Spray) and scented cleaning wipes for this. Try everything but the douche--girls don't need it and it can affect the ph balance of her vagina and ultimately cause problems.
Be a cool guy and help the sister out. Don't just kick her to the curb without telling her why. That's not going to be helpful to her and she'll just get hurt again by some other guy down the road. You can take this opportunity to be the cool guy who can help her prevent future embarrassment.
Hope that helped.
You guys are forgetting the not so obvious... the smell could be more than just a lack of hygiene. Some other things that cause odor downstairs are: stress incontinence, yeast infections, STD an undiagnosed health condition or an excessive use of soaps. No, I’m not a doctor or a smart-ass. My wife had that problem and she refused to see a doctor… we didn’t have sex and eventually divorced. Stink pussy is serious when you're in a serious relationship. If it's a one night stand, don't worry - hold your nose then hit it and quit it!
QUOTE ["kimberly080606 on May 26, 2007, 02:36PM You really don't want to tell her that. That's completely rude and a woman's vagina has a way of cleaning itself. Perhaps she just needs to clean her vagina a little more."]
Ok Kimberly, so what you are saying is a little guy with a mustache climbs out of her vaggy, holding a squee-gee, spray bottle, paper towels and a power buffer?!? Self cleaning , huh?
yep I agree with john. I dont think you should come out and say 'yer vag smells'..maybe just shower with her before yous are about to have sex that way it doesnt seem obvious and if she still keeps smelling fishy [lmfao] after quite afew dates maybe you should just end it or come staright out and tell her..theres not much else you can do pal
seriously, if girls havent had a shower recently, most girls are going to smell bad down there. just because she has a smelly vagina at one point, doesn't mean that it is always smelly or she has a problem. wrong time probably for you. dont dump her cause of htat, cause all girls are going to be like that if they havent showered recently
It could have been many things. Keep in mind that one day you may get married and I promise you, she will have a day or two that her vagina doesn't smell the greatest. Just like men, you guys sweat and get a little smelly, but you still want it. Women have a whole other world going on down there. Give her a break and try later.
See how every female dont wont you to leave them for there sex part mishapps but they will leave men for theres lmao man look if she stink flat out tell her u stink if she still stinks in years after that it was always on her as a female and never u ad a man to help a sister out because she STINKS lmao @ females
There is no need to end it just get dirty with her in the shower! perhaps she was jst a lil hot that day n was sweating! there is no need... not like uve ever been down there before!!
You really don't want to tell her that. That's completely rude and a woman's vagina has a way of cleaning itself. Perhaps she just needs to clean her vagina a little more.
Sometimes it just happens sweat or what ever. Next time try taking a shower together.
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