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Got A Number Off A Girl...

Ok i’m 17 and for a long time i’ve had trouble with girls. I went out with my friend and we met up with more of his friends. We were all having fun, talking about different things and all that. Then more of his friends came and one of them happened to be a girl i took a liking to instantly. We didn’t really talk much but we did have a bit of fun dancing and drawing things on my freinds face lol. But i’m not very good at reading signals, so when ever i looked at her she was always smiling at me. And she is very good looking too so it seemed unusual to me that she was smiling all the time at a guy like me. I got the feeling she also liked me…am i getting the signals mixed? But anyway i didn’t get the chance to ask for her number because her friends were always around her so i asked my friend if he could get it off his friends (sorry for using the word friends so much) and well yeah i got her number and tried calling but no answer…im even more nervous and i keep muddling up what im gonna say. any tips on what i should do to relax and on what i should say to her?

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Answer #1

What about texting as well though…a friend just said if i dont push it and i do it right (as well as calling) then it could work out. he said if you do it so that a girl knows you like her then all the better but i have no idea…any ideas?

Answer #2

Just be yourself, when you speak to her take it slow, think about what you are saying and take deep breaths cos if you talk to fast it comes out all weird and she’ll pick up that you are nervous. Try and see her again and flirt with her a bit more, not in a sleezy way, but in a “im very interested in you” way so she feels special.

Answer #3

man just relax and be calm. Dont freeze when she anwsers the phone. Yea its hard not to for the first time dont let the hello make you melt. Just talk to her as if you was talking to any other girl just a basic conversation. Dont rush into anything yet just get to know each other.Hope i helped you out.Iv had this problem befor.

Answer #4

Look for an other opportunity to see her. Ask your friend about the next occasion when this company gets together, and be there. Then be nice, not pushy, but mention her that you would be happy to see her more frequently.

Answer #5

call her and she has an answering machine that catches it tell her ure name and number and that u want to talk 2 her

Answer #6

Just meet with her and hang out with her. Ask your friend for her # if he has it. Keep on calling.

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