How do I say goodbye to him, without causing too much pain?

Answer #1

If there is pain then there is probably a past. consider this a turning point in your life. love is strange and unpredictable. Love is also something to learn from. so thus: you live, you love, you learn. Move on dear. You’ll figure out how to say goodbye from there.

Answer #2

No matter which way you say goodbye, goodbyes will always hurt. The only way to minimize the pain is to be be gentle, but honest. Use “I” statements (I feel, I want, I think, etc). The minute you use “you” statements it kind of puts blame on one person, which usually isn’t the case and usually just starts arguments.

Answer #3

If it is temporary (as in your will see him again, even if it is a while away), why not avoid saying goodbye and instead say ‘see you later’, which doesn’t sound quite so bad to say. It is understandable that any form of goodbye will be upsetting and painful though. Just say thank you for him having been a par of your life for so long, and that you will miss him, but good luck for the future and you really hope he is happy and successful in whatever he is going off to do :)

Answer #4

there is never an easy way to say good bye especially to the person you love but sometimes u have and there will always be pain when you leaving the ones you love but sometimes you have to runaway to see who will run after you take care and your hear will guide you to the answer

Answer #5

there is never an easy way to say good bye especially to the person you love but sometimes u have and there will always be pain when you leaving the ones you love but sometimes you have to runaway to see who will run after you take care and your hear will guide you to the answer

Answer #6

there is no way

Answer #7

Say u want to be his friend from now on

Answer #8

Say u want to be his friend from now on

Answer #9

Say u want to be his friend from now on

Answer #10

Say u want to be his friend from now on

Answer #11

Tell him u want to be frined nd u feel nothing around him

Answer #12

Tell him u want to be frined nd u feel nothing around him

Answer #13

Tell him u want to be frined nd u feel nothing around him

Answer #14

Tell him u want to be frined nd u feel nothing around him

Answer #15

Tell him u want to be frined nd u feel nothing around him

Answer #16

Tell him u want to be frined nd u feel nothing around him

Answer #17

Tell him u want to be frined nd u feel nothing around him

Answer #18

Tell him u want to be frined nd u feel nothing around him

Answer #19

Tell him u want to be frined nd u feel nothing around him

Answer #20

Tell him u want to be frined nd u feel nothing around him

Answer #21

Tell him u want to be frined nd u feel nothing around him

Answer #22

Tell him u want to be frined nd u feel nothing around him

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