What should I do for my birthday?

On December 21st, I will be turning 17-years-old. People keep asking me what is it that I am doing for my birthday and the answer from me is always, I DON’T KNOW. It seems like everytime I actually decide on what I want to do, there is a problem. Either I’ve done it before or one of my friends who’s birthday is before mine is planning on doing the same thing. Now my boyfriends mother told me that I need to hurry up and decide because time is winding down and her and my mother wanted to start planning. She also told me that they were planning to through me a graduation party, which will be 5 months after my birthday, So I don’t want to break anyones pocket by having 2 parties in less than 6 months.

Someone please give me some kind of idea. My birthday is in 2 months and 3 days. I need an idea fast.