How can i get girls to look under my skin?

Im so tired of this….i constantly walk up and down the halls getting judged and stuff bc im a little overweight especially by girls bc they always judge on looks and not whats on the inside most girls i know date total jackasses who dont deserve them instaed of guys like me who would treat them right and never do them wrong and i wanna know why

Answer #1

just be really nice and dont say mean things

Answer #2

Ahhh a very good question, the beauty behind the mask. I dealt with this question myself for a long time. The important fact of this is to truly be yourself. Many people in the situation of “Oh I’m not good looking enough I need to change myself” often times will hide their innermost feelings and personality, covering it with material possessions or acting out in a way that is not comparable to who they really are. The major factor in acceptance from girls your peers etc. is to be yourself, show your personality. I myself am a poet, a nerd, a comic, etc.. My personality withholds many things, I’m a dark sometimes melancholy hippy at heart, so ironic yet this is who I am. Many people think I am strange and many people see my inner beauty and those are the people who I hang out with, who I am compatible with, and girls who see that beauty in me are usually (if I find the same emotional/mental attraction) who I will date or open up to at least. You have to realize that you are who you are, that in itself cannot be changed, your looks, your personality, everything about you is who you are and that is perfect like it is, it’s not how you can change for others to see your beauty, but rather finding those who see it without you having to do anything at all. And they do exist I can promise you that. Everyone in this wild yet incredibly lovely universe has someone out there who is perfect for them, some never find it, but they’re usually the ones who try to force it. Fate can’t be controlled, let it happen, don’t try to force it to happen.

Answer #3

(read this out loud).. the girls love me for my brain and abiliies.. and leave the mirror alone…

Answer #4

I am 34 and the same height that I was at 15.

Answer #5

be confident always smile and look happy, they will get attracted, they will start RAINING …(beware girl rain is most dangerous kind of rain…much worse than acidic rain :D)

Answer #6

……..wtf

Answer #7

you should just be really nice and honest to the girl and once she gets comfortable with you tell her your feelings and how much you love her..this really works. This was my friend’s boyfriend’s strategy and try not to give her turn-offs of any sort.

Answer #8

SHow them that you like them for them. When you get comfortable with your body and you become confident then the girls will see it to. Im a girl i know that sometimes i do judge by looks but if the guys is confident and loves his body i like him a little bit more so good luck i hope i helped

Answer #9

Make your personality shine. (Cheesy, but it will work :)

Answer #10

BE YOURSELF!!! When I know I like a guy it’s because I’ve looked into their eyes and heart not pocket or clothes. You can’t force a girl to like you, but you can ask them to look inside. And make sure you look what is her heart. Treat others as you want to be treated. ^^

Answer #11

If they like u then they will c over the flaws.

Answer #12

Haha I thought it was witty

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