What do you think girls fear the most in a relationship?

Umm well I think you should tell him that your afraid of getting hurt again. And besides everyone in this world is going to hurt you…it’s up to us to find the people worth suffering for.

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yw..i also rly agree with what baseball101 said..some people are worth suffering for

If you are both not in a relationship and like each other, why not take the time to talk to him about your concerns. Perhaps he is also unsure of some aspects of getting into a relationship with you.

If you can both express your concerns it will build a stronger relationship.

Good Luck !!

i think that your fear is that things will tear apart. but things will get worth for if you believen your heart and have trust. did he ever told you why he wants to be with you?

They fear finding the one that they love more than anything in the world finding the one they wont know how to function without and finding out after dating happily for a year he was only after her best friend who is basically her sister.

I think we fear lack of control.

as in?

Control over the relationship.

It’s not falling in love that I fear; It’s falling in love with an abusive partner that I’m concerned about.

I can’t speak for other girls, but I can say no girl would want to fall in love, then get their hearts broken.

loving the guy alot then she finds out he not love her or cheat on her or dump her uffffff itsss hard believe me

i think that is my biggest fear…getting hurt

I think maybe we are scared of falling in love with the wrong persion, as in we think this one persion is are solemate but then a nuther persion is really are solemate but there with someone so u cant be with them anyways..for me im scared of getting hurt as in being called ugly when they see my body, or being yelled at or getting hit. I think if you reallllyy like him then say yes! Talk to him and dont be afried… I have always belived in fate and ‘if it was ment to be’ someone tolled me something very important, and it was, always try something once! U never know if it well work out or if u well like it but u wont find out unless u try it first. :)

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np :)

What do I think? Well first off if you like him and he likes you…. then what’s the rush? If you’re not looking at another guy and he isn’t another girl…. then he can have patience.

Girl’s worst fear is the most simple. They are afraid of being hurt. You have been hurt before. You are afraid of being vulnerable again. Because to actually love someone you have to be put in a vulnerable position.

Your answer should depend on how much you trust him. If you can see him treating you right and not hurting you…. then say yes. However, if you see that he will more than likely hurt you… then I’d say not right now.

If you still can’t answer that question…. then I would have to tell you this. Love is a gamble. You may win a hand and lose a hand. In the end….. though no matter how many times you fall…. once you find that person….. it’ll be worth every scar.

They are afraid of losing out the feeling !! They feel insecure they are the most delicate creature when it comes to nourishing but very strong to withstand any pressure from outside !

But if you have been hurt many times you view everyone as nothing but horrible sadistic beings.

When a man leave her alone from the time she already give everything to him.

Girls are afraid of falling in love for the wrong guy… But I guess you have to try and find out:)x

Very true….. however doesn’t make it true. I’m not saying its easy, nor is it without its risks. The more times you are hurt the less you wanna try again. Though if you ever want that true happiness. Then you gotta keep trying…. and with every new experience comes a little more knowledge about people and yourself, and what you are looking for.

Abandonment

Deffinately being hurt. i.e. Cheated on, or the after affects if/when you break up.

I think you should tell him why you won’t answer him tell him you’ve been hurt b4 and you are scared to trust anyone again…who knows he may surprise you. Not every one in this world is out to hurt you and not everyone in this world is out to help either…you just have to put trust in yourself and in your heart to make what you feel is the right decision. good luck :) hope this helps

they fear that your just in it for sex and that you will talk about stuff to your friends :(

being used for sex , & having a boy pretend to like her .