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do most girls think asian guys are not attractive?
Well,I think that it all depends in the culture that we were raised in.
I was raised abroad in places like Cuba, so in my head I viewed sexy men as men who were like Brazilian or Cuban.
Then returning back to my country which is an Asian country, I attended a university with the majority of its students originating from the Chinese ethnics.
I didn't really have much trouble adapting because I was born in a Chinese neighborhood went to Chinese catholic schools so I was used to the manner of discipline they had in studying.
There was this stiffness that I can't quite explain that followed me at school in Cuba, and yes I studied mostly with the Vietnamese students.
It's like we have the same studying routine. But when I was at uni here,I thought the guys at school were okay. Not sexy though.
Because I was raised in a different place which taught me that sexy was like so and so. But all my girlfriends which were Chinese would say so and so is sexy.
You see they were raised inside the country so their views about who is sexy would be like guys who look more like Jay Chou or one of the F4 group.
Anyway that didn't matter, I fell in love with my friend who was 100%Chinese. Just because we had good chemistry. It broke down the barrier of the different cultures we were raised in.
So I don't think that most girls dislike Asian men. It's just that Asian people have almost everything, the brains and the money, if you had the body that everybody in the world would want, all the other guys will be screwed!
I dunno. out on the street I see many chinese girls going out with white men, but rarely white girls with chinese guys. so I was kinda wondering what girls really thought.
It's because Asian girls like white men, and vice versa. White girls usually go for white men or black men. Usually.
Asians as a whole may be second class to white people, but they still do better than Hispanics or blacks. Asians are known (or stereotyped perhaps) as smart and rich - if a bit stingy and manipulative - so you can't go wrong if you want to marry one.
As for whether girls find Asian guys attractive, it depends on what kind of person you are. Fortunately for you, girls are usually less concerned about looks than guys are. Usually.
I'm half asian. And well, here in the states people can be very self centered and close minded. Asian guys have been stereotyped to have small reproductive organs opposed to the myth of all black males being very well endowed. I want all the ladies to know that race has nothing to do with size. In all my years of dating, I only seriously dated 1 white girl. Don't get me wrong, I don't choose the ladies, they chose me...seriously I've never asked a girl out. I just think that the girls stay with what they are familiar with, and lets face it...some girls are just afraid to try something they might actually enjoy. Our sweet and sour pork. lol
I would say that girls like Asian guys. I am very much attracted to Asian men and I am a black women. I would say Asian men just need to be more aggressive. Because I am interested in Asian men but just seem to never find one. In high school and college I have always had asian friends, and my male asian friends were dating female from various backgrounds. And as a recent college grad I have learned that everyone of any race likes every other race. Everyone likes to dibble and damble with Asian guys. Trust me Asian men are wanted, your defintely not disliked.
I have heard the roumer that girls " dislike " asains many times but I think its not true. I will admit that thier is alot of racial discrimination I have heard in my life time about asains but at the same time liveing in a large city I meet people with asain boyfriends all the time. I guess it depends on the person. I personally used to not be attracted to asains when I was like 13 but as soon as I was 16 I started realizeing asain boys can be sexy for sure!!.. :P p. s If someone doesnt like you because your asain then thier shallow!!
I'm asian, well half, and woman of all sorts find my looks quite revolting. From afar I get girls hootin and hollerin for me, then once I get close enough for them to see my eyes slantin a bit to the sky, they suddenly have to go. Oh well, I get myself off with math problems and working on the railroad with my black friends while wearing a pointy saucer hat.
completely relate to hazelnutgem. Except I'm black. and probably the only black girl that admitted, when answering this question...I LOVE ASIAN GUYS.
But I don't think any asian guys my age really like me, since I don't know any, and its hard for me to meet any. =/ Still not sure if hardly Asian guys like Black chicks. Sad.
Yeah a lot of girls don't like dating asian guys. I am asian and I don't like most of them for a reason because they are judgmental and some are too soft. And a lot are close minded. But I do got a few really cool asian homeboys who aren't like that.
I'm not Asian. But I would find an Asian guy attractive. Depending on how his face looked. Not his race or skin color. And either way, I don't care about looks. I care about a guy's personality.
You wanted a girls opinion, so there you go.
I wouldnt mind dating an asian guy, I find them attractive. its just like with other boys, you know
thats my girl opinon but I dont knkow what works in the states, im from up north ^^
boobooloogoo has been making some nasty comments i noticed. but its ok. i feel that asians are sort of being considered a second grade race in America. but i guess thats reality.
i dunno. out on the street i see many chinese girls going out with white men, but rarely white girls with chinese guys. so i was kinda wondering what girls really thought.
im not asian im half portugees and half english.. i think asian's an all other cultures r attractive.. an boobooloogoo ur an idiot.. ur prob ugly anyway so get a life x
I agree with you ''exu1r'' that is reality. But it shouldn't be. People shouldn't have to be judged based on physical appearence. It's just wrong.
I'm black and I personally think that asian guys are HOTTT!!! I don't know what it is...maybe the many jdramas I watch (Japanese dramas).
I only like Asian guys. I think they are the sexiest ever. I'm Italian though, so I don't think Asians like me.
I think they're so cute, handsome, hot. (=^-^=) I'm just wonder if they would go out with a Hispanic girl.
well no ofense to anyone but i personally have never found an asian guy attractive, but thats my own opinion
I think you're good looking (but don't tell my boyfriend :D ) He's chinese, and the sexiest guy ever!!
I'm half asian! I think some asian guys are hot. like, it doesn't matter what they look like to me.
I think they are very hot esspespcially the Korean, Japanese, and Chinese ones.
omg... koreans are hott!! japaneese and chinesee too you know!!!
ahh cool im asian lol
but ima girl
chinese and italian :]
I think asian guys are sooo amazingly attractive <3
chinese & irish here
