We last had sex about a month ago, a while I know but we have both been put off for a while because we think she could be pregnant. She managed to get 3 pregnancy tests and they all said she isn't, however she missed her period and then had it for about 3 days and it stopped again. Now she has a weird small lump on her stomach? It confused me because it had only been 4 weeks and she has a lump? She says it might not be anything like that, it could be because she ate loads? She wants to believe she is putting weight on but its clearly not just added weight. Also, after we had sex the man stuff was on she outside of the condom.. I had a look to make sure the condom hadn't split, which it didn't.. We're both confused and rather weird, neither of us want to be parents just yet.. What do you think? Also how long do we have before she can't have an abortion anymore? (UK) Thank you.
Of course its her choice, I wouldn't force her into anything like that, ever! But we're both really young and not working, so I don't think it would be a good idea to keep it either way.
Seems unlikely. But obviously, it's still possible. Best to wait to see the gyno or doctors. Oh, and I hope that the choice to terminate (if in fact she were) is her choice not yours.
Good. There's a lot of different kinds of birth control, she just has to use one that fits best with her lifestyle :)
Tell her to go see a gynocolegist. Also, she needs to get on birth control so you guys can be even more protected.
I would take her to a doc, I dont think she is pregnant though
Thank you! She has an appointment tomorrow c: