How should i tell my girlfriend about a issue?

This is sort of a personal battle. You’re young, so yes, you are expected to care what people think. If you were an adult, I’d frankly tell you to suck it up and screw what everyone says or feels. I’m 110 pounds and my husband is 280+. I literally don’t give a damn when people see us together, but that’s 20 yr old me. As for you, this is a problem that won’t go away. You can’t avoid being in public together, so if you can’t look past whatever people might be thinking (which isn’t as bad as you may believe), you need to end this soon. If you can sprout enough confidence to be out with her, then you should be just fine. Whatever you do, I wouldn’t tell her about the issue. It’s going to make her self conscious and it will ruin your relationship either way. Eventually, you will need to learn to look past all of this, but you’re young for now. Just note that what people think genuinely doesn’t matter, and you’ll eventually see that as you get older.

if u really love her it shouldn’t matter how she looks and you shouldn’t care what people say. For you to go out with her in the first place you must have liked something about her so try to look beyond her physical appearance and focus on her good qualities. remember it’s whats on di inside dat counts =]

Suck it up or get a slimmer girlfriend. Hopefully someday, you’ll grow out of worrying more about what people think than how much this person next to you means to you…..(like do you really believe when someone passes you in the mall, that you stay in their thoughts for longer than 1/10 of second?? Or for that matter……..think of you at all?)

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my brother is itty bitty skinng and his gf is bigger and curvier but shes gorgeous and I don’t see anything wrong with it. A lot of times we worry about what people will think when really nobody is thinking that! I bet nobody even gives you two a second thought besides oh look at that happy couple. We arn’t cookie cutters, everyone is different and different shapes and we just gotta love each other, she’s a great girl obviously or else she wouldnt be your gf. just love her and love the time you spend with her. bigger is better sometimes (:

well idk haha honestly u just cant go to a girl shes getting fat. u just dont and cant do that. what id do was like ask her to go running with u or something make it seem u want to get out and lose lbs. just ask if she would come with you because u dont want to go alone or something.

Nice. Sorry, but seems kinda rude that you’re embarrassed. Be proud of your girlfriend; fat,skinny, black, white, or otherwise.

Don’t ask her to change how she is though. You could start working out and then casually ask her to join you maybe, but weight is a very sensitive area with girls. Tread lightly my friend.

It doesnt matter the size. some men believe that thicker women are better.. but you dont want to tell her she is fat, just take her to a sushi bar or veginarian place. offer her vegatables when she comes over . my boyfriend belives i am ‘skinny’ but i disagree.. the more you tell her she is beautiful, she will eventually believe it and her body will get adapted to her and will eventually slim… (proven) lol. just dont dump her because of her weight.. looks are NOT everything

my suggestion…….get another girlfriend…?