What do you do when your girlfriend isn't afraid to take the next step anymore?

dear agoda ,

You should talk to your girl friend about if she is ready to or if she just is not scared to and about what she meants try and get a more clear cut answer and Idea of what she is trying to say.

You sound ready but make sure it is for the right reasons.

I would say wait to till marriage because it is so much better and one day you will have wished you waited and saved your self for it but most people don’t take that advice so I wont bother.

Just make sure she is ready not being scared is good but it is not always the same thing.

Best wishes Faolan Blood

Well she knows that shes ready and it wasn’t my question she didn’t simply I’m not scared anymore sorry I shouldve clarified we allready talked bout for a long time I have been sort of egging it on like any other high school male but were in love and she thinks I’m a great guy who diserves what he wants unlikeall of the other assholes who get laid all the time quote on quote from my girlfriend now that that’s cleared what should I do

Well I was the girl in that situation. My boyfriend sort of “egged” it on me and well it made me hate it and want it less, plus imagine all the fights out of it, and in the end i said either you wait for me or were through, and he chose to stay with me. Anyways, im not sure where I’m going with this. But from what it sounds, its like shes giving it because you are unlike other assholes and yea thats agood thing, but make sure that she wants this for her too, not just to please you. Discuss this with her, make sure she wants this, and make sure that you want to do this. If you really do love her you will respect her and not egg her on if she decides she wants to wait. Best of luck.

sorry *it’s like she is willing to give it because you are unlike…

Why are you guys so negative haha there wasn’t any fights or anything it’s really simple she wants to now like it isn’t she is just doing it to make me happy this has been a long time coming now and she really feels comfortable I am about to try to post our entire conversation on here because you guys aren’t getting what I’m trying to say now I realize that waiting till marriage is a good thing and we should try to do it buttttt WE don’t to do that not I don’t want to do that WE. Now let’s get back to the actual question what should I do should ijust do it anywhere and how I would want to do it or should I take her somewhere romantic I’m a vergin she’s a cergin neither of us know what were doing and I don’t want to mess this up

omg it didnt ost again

of course that one did lol

OK, make ethis special, DONT just do it anywhere dont take her virginity from her like you would any sl*t. Do it on a proper bed, make it as specal and as romantic as you can. Depending on your girl, maybe you can make her a nice dinner, candlles nice music( like those are the things I would like and some girls i know would but find out what your girl likes ) .If youre doing it in your own bedroom, clean it, moe somethings so it seems less cluttered, change your bedsheets. Ok when you actually do it, kiss her lots, play with the other parts of her body, neck arms, legs, tummy, breasts, before you go to her vj. When you are going to , do it nice and slowly, rmemeber she is a virgin, it wont hurt you but for her she can feel anywhere from discomfort to lots of pain, kiss her through it remind her how mcuh you love her and how special she is to you. Start with the head and slowly ease it in, if it looks like shes in bad pain, stop and kiss her, and slowly when she wants try again. Neever rush it, never try to ram it into her.Be kind and gentle.

wow apparently i cant iuse the word s!ut lol

if you are willing to take it .. then go for it