How can I tell this girl about this other girl?

There is this girl in my class and she like really likes me. I mean she really does and like she wont leave me alone. There is this girl who sits in front of her who I like and she likes me too. Well anyways I been talking to her friend in front of her for some time. And we already done some things. the girl that has this crush on me doesnt know this about her freind. Well Anyways we dont know how to tell her now cause we just started to went out last nite so ya im lost.. How can we tell her about this. Cause my girlfriend now is afraid to tell her what is going on. And the whole time my girlfriend was telling her to get off my back that I was ugly and forget about me but she was only saying that to get her of my back. does she tell her or do we just forget about saying anything to her…pklease let me know…dru

Answer #1

That is hard. She will be hurt because her friend has been telling her things she didn’t really believe.

I would get her alone and simply tell her you are sorry but you aren’t interested. Ask her if you two could be friends instead.

It might be better to wait and go slow with her friend - because you don’t want to cause their friendship to be damaged. Once you let her know you aren’t interested she will probably move on and then you can be more open about her friend.

Whatever you do - be sensitive to her feelings and don’t embarrass her because it hurts for a guy to not be interested!

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