So this girl is 19 and she hasnt had sex in like 2 years. and we were fooling around foreplay at her house for like 3 hours. Then we went to have sex and first she told me to get the condom before she changed her mind about using it... but I grabbed it anyways cause I knew she wanted one. Then when we actually go to do it she says shes not sure about it then says she wants it and kinda goes back and forth for a minute so when she said ok again i just did it real fast cause she was pissing me off. Then I was kinda uncomnfortable because she was acting like she wanted to stop but then said sorry so I went a little faster and she freaked out and said this doesnt feel right a bunch of times and pushed me away and starte crying.... Im not sure what to do... how to feel... did i do something wrong here? .. woman are fcking weird..
It sounds like she wasn't sure if she really wanted to do it or not and that she might have done it to "not upset you". When someone says there not sure repeatedly then maybe a few times says their sure it's most likely that they are trying to convince themselves they are ready to. Don't have sex with someone unless they are sure from the get go, if they flip flop they honestly don't want it that bad and you need to respect their wishes.
She didn't really want to have sex. Had she had truly wanted it she would not have gone back and forth. Sounds like she did it just to appease you because you were getting mad. For future reference if a girl is sure she won't change her mind at all, do don't put that sort of pressure on a girl like that (your getting mad).
Simply, you made her feel cheap! You said she doesn't give it up like that. You said she didn't want the rubber but you grabbed quick like she was a hooker. You socked it to her when she wasn't even ready. And finally you raced to the finish line like people were waiting in line behind you.
She didnt want to do it but she didnt want to let you down so she went with it...never get mad if a girl doesnt want to have sex. Be understanding because there is a reason she doesntvwant to.
If a girl isn't sure about having sex, DO NOT have sex with her. She's crying because hate knows she made a mistake with you and she didn't want to have sex.
