what do you do when fwb's mom sees you through the window....the morning after?

I spent the night with my guy friend. When I got up the next morning I opened the blinds (he lives on the ground floor of an apartment building) then I went to take a shower. He was still asleep when i went in and as I was coming back to the room I heard him talking. I assumed he was talking in his sleep and I heard him say ‘oh hey ma’. I walking into the room oblivious of what was going on, I was wearing his tshirt and he was still laying in bed wearing just his pj pants. I can’t remember how exactly but I finally realized what was going on, HIS MOM WAS AT HIS WINDOW!! I was immediately embarrassed and freaked out. I ended up going to open the door for her and she came in and stayed for about 20 minutes. I attempted an awkward conversation with her, while i waited for him to come into the room (meanwhile I was pretty much naked since I was only wearing his tee) Anyway I hurried and got dressed then made my second appearance. I think she was kind of embarrassed as well as she never made eye contact with me. I’m just glad that wasn’t our first meeting! Now, I’m not sure how I’m supposed to act around her without things being awkward. Has anyone ever had this experience? How could this best be handled?….BTW, it was 6am!

Answer #1

Well, what’s done is done. You probably should have put some clothes on before opening the door for her haha. His mom isn’t stupid so she probably already figures what’s going on between you two… The best thing you can do is just be nice to her and make sure it doesn’t happen again, to avoid further embarrassment… :/

Answer #2

Yes … I’ve had a similar thing happened to me (only it was my mom). Yes, I felt embarrassed, but there was no need to.

Don’t worry about it. People spend the night together. They get naked and have sex. If she stayed and talked to you for 20 minutes it sounds like everything is ok to her. Relax. You can act like the strange encounter never happened or (better) act like what happened was just natural and (pretend to) be comfortable with it. Actually, sounds like Mom was pretty cool and trying to make the best of an awkward situation. Enjoy her.

Answer #3

Had something like that happen, except it was his sister, and i was compleatly topless, as was he. This was our first time meeting, and He pulled me in really tight so she didn’t see anything, but i couldn’t even look at her. She never really did like me after that. But it’s what ever. Yes, its embarrassing, but it will blow over! It could always be worse, his mom could have came over the night before when you were actually with him. If she was willing to stay and talk for a while, then i don’t think she minded too much, she probably understands, i mean, she was a teen once too right. So don’t worry, just try not to get caught in the situation again! But be ready for questions about what you and him are

Answer #4

lol, yes i shouldn’t have answered the door with just his shirt on. but, I shouldn’t have been the one to let her in at all! He was horrified so he was pretty much frozen in bed, i had to make him go in and talk to her. I’m just glad that I’m able to laugh about it so soon. I’m gonna bake her a crunch cake and go to her house and have cake and coffee or something.

Answer #5

oh god! if it had been my mom I would have been 10X more humiliated!! I”m 28 and I do believe my mom thinks I am still a virgin, and I like it that way! I think his mom is pretty cool with it because she called all of his siblings and told them he has a new gf. Although I’m not his gf, I’m just glad she didn’t call them and say he had some tramp naked in his apartment!!

Answer #6

Funny thing is, I’m sooo glad she came when she did because I was going to go back into the room and get a bit more frisky with him. That was my plan while i was in the shower. I just keep thinking, what if she had used her key and seen me servicing him?!? OMG, that would have been a tragedy LOL. for the last 8 years people have just automatically assumed we were a couple so I’m ready for any questions, i’ve been explaining “us” for a while now.

Answer #7

That’s a really good idea:)

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