How to get him to fall for me again?

It was a full year and I tried going out with people. I’m nothing but a band geek to a lot of people, no one really likes me and thats why im falling back on my EX because he makes me know someone might like me out there. The feel I get when I’m around him can’t ever change and I don’t feel right when I’m with someone else, it feels wrong. Hes the only one that gives me the feelings he does and I don’t want to loose that…ever..

But the more you keep doing with him, the longer its going to take for you to get over him. Sometimes first love teaches us a thing or two – and not necessarily lessons we wanted to learn. You shouldnt let your first love affect the future for other potential relationships. Your Mr. Right, is somewhere waiting, just don’t let him be the one in the past. You cant have a future, when you’re so caught up in the past.

I don’t have sex with him, I never would. We went out for so long and I can’t get over him that easily. He means a heck of a lot to me and I always want him to be in my life no matter how he is in it. (all though I’d rather it be on good terms rather than bad). Hes my 1st true love… that will never change.. Kissing him isnt all that bad, all I’m doing to getting last min feelings in that I could before because we broke up so fast.. thats all.

BLAH dont listen to angelfire.. Look girl, I would tell you friends with benefits is not a problem, IF. your not emotionally attached , but if you are, which you are still in love with him, I would suggest remaining friends with him, would be a good idea, random, occasional make outs arent gna hurt anyone right? BUT. dont sleep with him, you are risking too much, and also. benefits are’nt permitted when he has a girlfriend. :] good luck, I hope you find out what you want to do.

I WOULD JUST SAY FOR YOU TO KEEP YOUR HEAD UP HIGH…IF YOU WANT SOMETHING GO AFTER IT!!!

I agree with Angelfire. Superfresh, you have your opinion and she has hers. What’s your problem?