What do you like more in friend:honesty, generosity, or loyalty?

Answer #1

Loyalty, I don’t want a friend who will stab me in the back. I want a friend who will stick by me even when I’m an idiot (though I think honesty is important too, so they’ll tell me I’m being an idiot!)

Answer #2

Thanks. What a great answer.

Answer #3

Honesty, a frienship needs that so things work out, so we can help eachother and understand eachother. But having loyaty and generosity is also nice to have that in a friendship.

Answer #4

Also a nice answer.Thanks.

Answer #5

I would say loyalty howeve I feel that both loyalty and honesty go hand in hand.

Answer #6

Loyalty, I believe that with loyalty comes honesty and generosity is not very important as long as they’re not greedy, they return favores and make sure things are fair, I don’t want people trying to use me.

Answer #7

I see generosity as being many different things, it’s not necessarily about receiving gifts or being treated well in a financial sense, it can be just being there for your friends when they need you, or saying the right thing thing at the time, or just taking time to call somebody and see how are, so in that respect generosity can tie itself to loyalty. All three really are good traits to have in a friendship.

Answer #8

wow. awsome

Answer #9

loyalty because i’m not the most confident person so if i find that my friends are backstabber’s then I do feel very out of place. I don’t think generosity is a good quality in a person unless generosity is when they put their own time into helping their friends. however, honesty is key for friendship so you know where you stand. So you do need a good mix of all three but I think that a loyal friend is the best friend you can have

Answer #10

Loyalty is everything in a friendship…we have enough 2 faced wanna be people in our lives whom call themselves “friends” but arent! A loyal friend is a friend which sticks with you through good times & bad, which is always better then an honest friend who wont be there for you through ur good & bad days! Dont get me wrong i rather hv a honest friend then 10 generous friends. Remember, not every loyal friend will be honest with u all the time…nor will an honest friend be loyal to u…confused yet?! :P

*off topic here…I hate philosophical questions like this one…its like asking: “What came first…the chicken or the egg?!”

Answer #11

hm i wud say honesty

Answer #12

Loyalty

Answer #13

loyalty is best better than the others without which they arent really friends.Honesty helps but if they lie occasionally alot of people do.I had a friend who wasnt loyal to me when i was attacked at a party she wasnt a friend i found out,It still hurts now{ To have someone be disloyal}generally no one likes someone who backbites you.I found she did that too.Loyalty is better than honesty by far and generosity isnt important i dont think

Answer #14

because we feel scare so we try to secure ourselfs

Answer #15

because we feel scare so we try to secure ourselfs

Answer #16

Loyalty - always. I need to know that a friend will stand by me.

Answer #17

honesty. truth is the foundation of any relationship, at least for me and when people are honest the trust builds! but it does go hand in hand with loyalty i guess…

Answer #18

loyalty because they respect i mean u dont want a bitchy friend that cant be nice too u. And also honesty cant always happen to keep a relationship safe with ur pal and generosity is not really important in friendship.(well it is just not as much as the other ones)

Answer #19

honesty.

Answer #20

honestly , because i want a friend who is going to be truthfull to me , not fake or backstabbing because that`s all i went through with all the past friendships i had , but hopefully the new friends i made are good people.

Answer #21

Everyone says loyalty but I almost despise this quality because I had a friend who was SO loyal she suffocated me. And she acted like it was such a compliment and I should do the same to her. She took away all my time from other friends and things and whenever we’d talk about it she’d simply say “I’m just being a loyal friend.” Sometimes people need to realize that being loyal or generous may not always be real. They could be faking it out of insecurity (don’t want to lose the only friend they have) or if you are popular they may be trying to get into that crowd. Above all, honesty is a magnificent virtue.

Answer #22

I agree =)

Answer #23

I agree to that one too…man…good answers people! =)

Answer #24

respect

Answer #25

respect

Answer #26

Your so right.

Answer #27

I agree with you.

Answer #28

Honesty! I can deal with everything else. I see the relationships of life as equations that must be in balance to work; and if someone thinks they are being short changed, taken advantage of, neglected or dissed, I want to know about it right away. It is their responsibility as a friend/partner to let me know if I make them feel bad in some way, just as it is mine to let them know.
Generosity can be unauthentic and come from: wanting to buy your friendship, their feelings of inadequacy or baggage like guilt from their past. Loyalty also can be given for the wrong reasons. The only people I expect loyalty from are my wife and employer. Honesty however is from the heart and shows personal integrity. Honesty is trust and generates mutual respect, understanding and acceptance. If you are honest with me, even if I don’t like what I am hearing, I can accept it, because sometimes sh*t happens. Give me honesty and I will give you honesty, loyalty and generosity in return.

Answer #29

loyalty, it’s important to me that somebody is loyal to me

Answer #30

loyal, because if they are loyal they are honest (:

Answer #31

there all really imprtant. i wouldn’t want a friend who would ditch me and i really wouldnt want one to lie to me

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