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Lately I've been having some problems, with my friend, who has in a way caused some , actually quite a lot of girl problems.

Im not the best looking guy in the world, but I've never been denied, and I always connect well with whoever.

My best friend Jutt, is like one of the most popular kids in our school. Im not gay but ill give it to him, hes a good looking boyy. Hes a football balla , got the preppy thing going for him, I party more then him still, but he always seems to be at the exact right ones, and well yeah, you can probably imagine what hes like.

Well anyway, we are practically like impossible to separate for much more then a day. I've made a variety of nice "mess" ups, and blah, he drives.

Its happened with several girls now, hell never pay them any attention, untill I start hanging out with them. Then, all the sudden its like they are his long lost lover or something. I cant compete with him, sure I can drown him in money , but thats practically the only advantage I have over him. And that really doesnt matter in high school, unless your just like, oh look, im going to buy you a 30 pound stuffed polar bear compared to his like, teddy bear he won out of a claw machine.

Hes my best friend, but like, I've been talking to this girl, shes a foreign exchange student, and shes like, really one of the more looked at girls of our school, and I plan on asking her out tomorrow, but the more I think about it, the less sure I am that I want to follow through with it. Im on probation, and I cant drive for another 4 months, and she loves going out and partying or whatever, which im fine with, but she doesnt do any drugs or anything, which means I've got to keep her away from that certain grouup of people, who are really like some of my best friends, but blah, we cant really hang out with them.

So anyway, it means practically that were going to end up with Jutt, and Im afraid that hes going to do what he always does, especially since this one really is a stunner.

Hes my best friend, and kinda I don't know, bipolar? Hes real cool, but some of the smallest things set him off, and I don't know. Its always been the bros before hoes thing, even though he doesnt always seem to follow through with it, but I can really see me and her having some good times this year, and I dont want him to come in between us.

I dont know. Im just afraid to confront him about it, because like, hes my best friend, and Im one of those persons who likes only like 2 or 3 best friends and is fine with just a bunch of "normal friends" or whatever.

I dont know. Thanks if you read all that, its a pretty hefty piece of writing haha.

I guess basically I dont know if I should follow through with this girl, because the chances are hes going to take an interest in her, and Im pretty sure I wouldnt just let it slide and I don't know, whatever.