Does my best friend like me?

His name is Ryan, and he and I realized about 2 months ago we were pretty much best friends. For the first time, we actually really hung out. He came over to my house last night around 9, cause he wanted to watch Stepbrothers with me, and left around 11. We really didn’t pay attention to each other, because Ryan kept tickling me,… and poking me, and hugging me, cuddling with me, and licking my arm (?) A couple times, he kicked my butt, but that’s beside the point I guess. When my ex texted me, he took my phone and wouldn’t give it back until he left. Ryan wants me to come over saturday, and I said I’d come over. We talk and text a whole lot, like hours on end. He makes fun of me, but tells me he’s just kiding. Now, ALL of this is COMPLETELY confusing, because he claims he doen’t like me more than a best friend. So why does he act that way? Is he just saying that because he’s scared of ruining our friendship if we were to go out, and then break up? And if so, how can I convince him otherwise?

Answer #1

i have that problem too for the most part its exactly the same except its just textng and he is always touchy at school i think he likes u but because he is ur best friend he doesnt know ho wot say it to u without it being friendly because tht is what he is used too… which is my problem too he is all flirty and then nothing its like a blank wall…men just cnt express themselves but i bet he does like u

Answer #2

guys r really confusing…it does sound like he llikes you though : ) your right maybe he is just scared that going out and breaking up might ruin the friendship… is he a flirty type of guy? or no? it all depends but ya guys are so v ery confusing you can never truley know for sure… but hey maybe if you guys get closer and closer im sure you will get closer to finding out you just have to be super patients with guys unfortuently…but i wish you the best of luck with your answer… : )

Answer #3

probably he does, just values u as a friend to much, i had the same thing, i loved her, and sure enough i told her… i dont wanna tell u what happened but ill let u decide what to do ;)

Answer #4

thanks :) Ryan tends to go from girl to girl, in terms of crushing. But he always acts the same, towards me. We are just now getting to hang out, cause school’s out and all. He doesn’t flirt unless he likes someone, that I’ve noticed.

Answer #5

why won’t you tell me? was it bad?

Answer #6

guys are confusing? LOL.. how bout u women

Answer #7

we dont talk

Answer #8

well, my friend Brook was over last night, but she chilled with my sister cause she wanted Ryan and I to have “alone time”. She told me after he left that she thinks he likes me, and she texted him asking. He just told her that he didn’t like me, and swears he doesn’t, yet he wants me to come over Saturday and watch a few movies.

Answer #9

oh. Sorry :/ and i saw your coment above, we are confusing. Haha,

Answer #10

ha yes women can b confusing but atleast we show guys how we feel and ya well give it sometime see if he continued to flirt with you and do the same things. but keep me posted

Answer #11

haha, yea.. were confusin, yall are confusin, so lets be confusin together ;)

Answer #12

suree, hehe ;P

Answer #13

well… if we do show i how we feel u girls are all like he is to clingy/ sensitive..always gotta go for the more mysterious ones with a challenge to entertain ya.. so we have to in order for ya to like us.. if not theres that stupid friend zone…

Answer #14

so you’re saying that guys wouldnt say “yea, i like you” if a girl were to say “i think i like you! do you like me?”

Answer #15

ya guys most likey wouldnt say they do even though they do

Answer #16

not necessarily that but if we get all i love you and wanna spend as much as we can and express how we feel to you all the time..were “clingy”.. but when we dont you are like ehh whatever as long as he listens to me…

Answer #17

ha well idk about all these other girls but id rather have have my man clingy then acting like he dont like me

Answer #18

yeah, me too

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