My friend always puts me down, she calls me fat and ugly, and slaps me, and never hangs out with me. I sent her a text telling her how I felt she said y did u say that and I told her all the mean things she has done and she said shut your freakin mouth i didn't talk to you.she is popular she would tell ppl my secrets.What should I do?
BTW I am in elementary school going into 6th grade if that helps
Okay, first of all don't freak out over this little bump in your life especially since you are so young. Trust me when I say that middle school is the hardest part of anyones life. Kids are trying to find out who they are, and are willing to do anything to fit in. In middle school kids think that certain people are "cool" or "popular" and try and do anything to please them or get their attention. This will quickly fade when you enter high school. While it is just as stressful, nobody really cares about impressing anyone anymore. I also think that you should stop labeling this girl as your friend, she obviously isn't. And, don't give her the satisfaction of you being scared that she is going to out all of your secrets. Show her that you do not care, and it won't matter as much to her. The only reason people do bad things like that to other people is to get a reaction out of them. If you don't give her or them a reaction then they won't bother trying to make your life miserable. Be yourself. In the end, thats all that is going to matter. If you spend your life trying to please other people, you will never be happy yourself. Good luck honey, I hope I helped a little bit. (:
Okay, why do you call her your friend? She obviously has some mental issues and she is in constant need for attention. The reason why she's mean to you is because she is insecure and just down right rude.
Stop being nice to this girl, stop talking to this girl, and get a new friend because this girl is only going to bring you sadness and anger and you don't need that in your life.
Don't be friends with someone just because they're "popular" either. I'm sure all the other people who hang out with her don't like her either.
all i can say is shes not your friend cause a friend wouldent do that to you.... friends are people you have fun with and you can be yourself around them and they make you feel better about yourself thats how my friends always were.... but shes not your friend, friends dont do that..... shes not worth it stop talking to her dont pay any attention to her.... make friends that actually care about you and your feelings and that you can have fun talking to and people who enjoy being around you and like to hangout with you.
I would get other frinds but I am really shy and she turned everybody against me. Also my dad just gave us awesome news in a few weeks i am moving halfway across the country, and I am making him sign a contract (he is over protective) that states that I will be aloud to hang out with any friends I make like a normal person, without parent supervision. So I can get over this shy thing and my parents are letting me take drama classes, so I will meet a lot of new people and make some new friends.
She isn't your friend. She a typical BULLY! You are your best friend and advocate so you have to believe that you are someone and that you deserve to be respected. Don't ever allow anyone to talk down on you, and don't ever hit anyone unless they hit you first. And hit them HARD.
And if you ever see someone being bullied, don't be afraid to step in. We owe it to each other to stand up against bullies.
She slaps you? Oh heck no I'd slap her back! Teach her a lesson to not be hitting you. Sweetie that's not a friend more like a bully towards you. Girls like that you don't need in your life.So what if she's the "popular" one right now I know it matters for you. But as you get older you don't care about those kind of titles. Make new friends and ditch that girl! Best of luck!
well savanna, she sounds like a bully more than a friend,
i dont promote fighting alot but in this case let her have it!
dont let her hit you of anything beat the crap out of her if you have to!
you seem like a sweet girl and she seems like a bully!
hope this helped if you need anybody to talk to im here!
Yeah all you gotta do is be nice to people and be around people more and you'll start to open up. Just be kind to everyone you mee
*meet, and wear a smile every day. Don't be a pushover and people slap you around though lol.
And I'm not sure what you mean about that contract...........