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Should dad back off on teens' life decisions? Our daughters are 14 and 16 years old. They have physical talent for tennis. Hubby is trying to make them try out for HS tennis team or take the class (which plays JV sometimes in tournaments). He thinks they have real talent, maybe enough to earn way to college. After "practicing" w/him about 3 times a week for 2 years, the girls have had enough of his teaching and tennis. They say they don't like it and don't want to play. Hubby says they have been given a talent and it's a sin to waste it. I think they are old enough to choose what they want to do, and if they waste their talent, then so be it, but they also may find their talent in other areas and who are we to say? What is YOUR opinion, should we let them decide for themselves? Hubby says they'll be sorry later..