How do I flirt without making myself look weird?

Well, I finally got over my ex bf and I have found someone else. His name is Hunter and I play tennis with him. I have had a crush on him since last summer when we also played tennis together. Nothing happened between us last year but this year I have grown up a lot and want to try to talk to him outside of tennis. That would mean getting his number. I’m nervous about trying to flirt him into giving it to me because honestly I’m not very good at flirting. I am used to just being myself and hoping for the best. But since we only see each other 2-3 times a week I want him to know I’m interested. But if something goes wrong and I slip up I don’t want it to be awkward on the days we do see each other. What r your tactics? I’m warning u I’m kinda reserved and shy though… Please help

Answer #1

Maybe talk about common interests you guys share, you both play tennis so that would be a start

Answer #2

Definitely don’t go on too strong. Wait for a bit, and just try to act casual about things. When asking for his number, make up a reason like “just in case of practice schedules” or something like that. Just take things slow, and if he starts to show interest go for it. Good luck!(:

Answer #3

Just be natural, talk, chat, laugh when you want to laugh. Share your interests, perhaps suggest to do it together.

Answer #4

Talk to him about interesting topics when you have a chance, & smile occasionally while keeping direct eye contact (you want him to know you’re interested without making it too obvious). When you see him at the tennis court, smile right at him before doing anything. After you guys talk for a while, touch him playfully.. something like his arm or shoulder, but this is only when you two have talked a few times. Girls that flip their hair & bat their eyelashes.. I don’t even know what to say, all they do is make themselves look like idiots haha, so I wouldn’t recommend doing that. OH, & here’s a big one.. don’t laugh at everything he says. Guys spot this in girls immediately, only laugh at the things which you truly find funny so he knows your genuine and not just trying to impress him. Talk to him, smile with him, laugh when you think it’s necessary, & keep direct eye contact so he knows you’re confident.. you don’t want to come on too strong, you want to keep him guessing until he shows more interest in you. Then one day after practice or whatever, take out your cell phone and casually just be like, “Oh, what’s your number?!” Seriously that’s all you have to say, haha I’m sure he will give it to you. (:

Answer #5

Don’t be obvious, talk to him and just be yourself! (:

Answer #6

You could

  1. Ask him to go and have a coffee (soft drink, mineral water, hot chocolate, whatever) with you after tennis. Like: I really feel like I need a coffee now, I’d like to go to (whatever place that sells them and is close to the training center), would you like to come, too? And then sit down with him and just talk to him. Ask him about his interests, other than tennis. About school, about his friends.

  2. Or organize a bbq or other garden party with ppl from your tennis club and ask him to join. Maybe you can sit next to him there and talk.

  3. Ask him whether he is good at some school subject that you currently have a minor problem with and ask him to help you with a question. If he does or if he tries, invite him on a coffee/ coke/ hot chocolate “to pay back”.

  4. Tell other people from the tennis club that you have a crush on him (he’s sooo sweet, but I’m afraid to tell him), wait until they start to gossip. They will sure tell him.

Answer #7

smiling is the first nice step to move on :)

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