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First-time... Any help, ladies?

Hi. I’m 20 and I’m a virgin. It’s not that I don’t have the passion to have sex or anything, because believe me, I do… I just really respect women and don’t wanna come off as a perve like every other guy. I really do look for love first, not just sex. But I think I’m ready. There’s a girl that I currently have a “thing” with and I think it might lead to sex soon. I’m pretty sure that she’s had sex at least a few times (she’s not a slut or anything, just very attractive, and I get that vibe that she has). So basically, I like her a lot and I don’t wanna disappoint (not TOO much. Lol).

So, ladies, are there any positions or anything in particular that you really enjoy? Or that you’d really like to try? I am fine with being very giving, it’s all about her, not me. Feel free to list as much as you want and as detailed, please help!

Plus, do I need to bring any lube or anything? Or how about the new vibrating condom rings, do you ladies like them?

Thank you kindly! :)

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Answer #1

Just a side-note, “it” didn’t happen. lol. I had a big crush on her, but she changed a lot, and I lost interest. She just wasn’t who I thought she was. (shrugs shoulders) Oh well, I guess…

Thanks for all the advice though everybody! :)

Answer #2

O_o ok kiddo here are some tips:

  1. if you want to please a woman you need to know what SHE likes, not what other women like, so if it gets hot and heavy and you start and are unsure what you have to do, in a sexy voice ask “what would you like me to do?” (or something like that) but in general id advise oral first, cause its the easiest, and it works quick

  2. caressing is a must, dont be afraid to run loose every where, the inner thighs, shoulder blades,hips, breasts (dont SQUEEZE, caress) and the back of the neck (

  3. wear a CONDOM

  4. if at any moment your erection kinda flops (this happens often on the first time) dont panic! take a deep breath to calm yourself

  5. getting a tiny bit rough is allowed, and by rough I dont mean slapping her behind… a small bite here and there, some women like their hair to be pulled (not yanked)

  6. stop damn worrying, its your first time, so it wont end well (as in you wont please her 100%)

  7. tell her you are a virgin, she will guide you through it

(those are the 7 laws of of the holy testiclement 2nd revision) XD

Answer #3

lol I like the ‘7 laws of the holy testiclement’ which are very true… and you dont know for sure if she has or hasnt, I apparently seemed like I have but never did… eat her out first and always wear a condom…just go easy… take it slow and relax!

Answer #4

Thats very exciting. first of all, relax! its ok. everything will be first

I will tell you what I like that my boyfriend does. before we have sex, he licks my clit and fingers me to turn me on. so do this and I dont think you will need lube. do you know how to eat out a girl? if you dont I can explain it to you.

then once shes wet and your hard, start off slow, with you on top unless she asked for something else. switch it up from beatin it up hard and softly. rotate your hips around in a circle to make you and her feel every little bump and movement.

I can explain it more. if you need too :) feel free to ask. I hope this helped!

Answer #5

oh and dont bring any sex toys, ITS A BAD IDEA and if you have condoms you wont need the lube

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