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Fingering not a turn on?

Ok so i am 16 and i was fingered for the first time the other day. my best friend had already been fingered and she said it hurt the first time. it did. so it wasnt much of a turn on i guess just cuz it hurt. but he did it again today and it didnt hurt but it wasnt like a turn on.. is there something wrong with me? lol. or is it just because he didnt do anything to lead up to it he just went and did it? how can i make it more of a turn on.. can i? i feel kinda bad cuz i even told him its not really a turn on to me. lol.

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Answer #1

If you don’t masturbate or never have had an orgasm then maybe your body is new to it. At 16, you both probably aren’t experienced. My suggestion is for you to explore on your own, and then when you find something that works, teach him how to do it.

Answer #2

i agree, explore yourself so you know what you like becos how is he supposed to know if you dont even no what you enjoy. Maybe he isnt getting you wet enough, and thats just uncomfortable it wont feel good at all. Maybe try different things at first, maybe alot of making out and hands wondering to get you into the mood so you cant wait for him to go down there, it’ll be alot easier if you are heaps turned on.

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