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Is it sore to be fingered ? & does it bleed ? I havent been fingered before just need some girls opionss
Yeah, you should be fine. Also, make sure that his nails are clipped and his hands are clean first. Having short nails will help prevent him scratching you and tearing your vaginal wall, and clean hands help keep bacteria out of there.
it could be sore, since it's your first time... and if you're a virgin then you could bleed if he breaks your hymen, aka, pops your cherry... but if he's gentle and you are well lubricated then it shouldn't be bad...
Its only sore afterwards if he is too rough or if you were not properly lubricated before he stuck his fingers in you. You also shouldn't bleed unless he is too rough and tears your skin inside your vagina.
If you are anxious and worried, you won't lubricate and it will be sore. Get him to start through panties and when you're excited/ready he can go inside. Or pick up some water-based lubricant...
have you tried fingering yourself? youl know by then
