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Why does my girlfriend like this??? I can't see the pleasure...tried it whilst having a wank and didn't do anything for me...lol
I first got pleasure from my anus at the age of five. I used to tickle my bum outside my pants. I always longed to find a girl who liked to do the same to her bum but no luck. Later I would masturbate while stroking a thermometer in my bottom. Later still I used an enema nozzle and got my first orgasm without touching my penis. After this I started giving myself enemas slowly by using a long rubber catheter pushed well up. I would always orgasm while doing so. I really do not enjoy masturbating or having sex unless I have something up my bum, preferably being wiggled or stroked. Unfortunately, I have never found a woman who says she likes doing the same and so it is nice to hear that judeat 13 likes the feeling of her finger in her bottom, lucky finger! Another thing I really like is stroking my finger across a girl's anus and then sniffing my finger afterwards. I have to do this in a way that she does not realize fully what I am doing as I am afraid of her reaction. The smell is usually fantastic and very exciting. I simply love it and would like to make all my fingertips smelly in this way. I would love to put my head up a woman's skirt or dress and have a sniff around. The trouble is, I would have to be dragged away afterwards! I also love the smell of dirty knickers but somehow getting the conversation to move in this direction with positive comments is something I have been unable to do. So womens' bottoms are ace whether they are finger sniffed or a finger is pushed up there either by a partner or by the woman herself. I have no problem with the idea of anal sex if both partners agree and it is carried out carefully, so those of you lucky enough to enjoy anal play with your partners, good luck and keep enjoying yourselves. Good luck to all you folk who like each others' bottoms
Any fellow with a girlfriend who likes the feeling of a finger up her bottom is a lucky man. If the man likes it too, fantastic! The anus of both male and female is supplied with nerves that generate pleasure and can produce an orgasm. Going deeper in, a man has a prostate gland which can be stimulated and massaged from inside the rectum and the woman has a G spot which can also be stimulated in the same way. Leaving aside the prostate and G spot for a moment, real pleasure can be experienced by anal stimulation through a finger or a similar sized object gently being stroked in and out using good lubrication. Exquisite pleasure can also be experienced if a small object about the size and length of a cigarette or standard enema nozzle is inserted into the bottom and is then sat down upon. Small movements on the seat, too small to be detected, will give rise to a very pleasurable feeling which will continue throughout the time the device is being "worn." In fact this can be so pleasurable that the "wearer" will soon prefer to keep this up his/her bottom all day and maybe all night except for toilet visits. The important thing is that the device should not be prone to slip out at the wrong moment! So many websites show violent anal activity which is no good for the participant and can be very harmful. Just do everything gently with lubricant (not very much if the device is being "worn" during the day) If you are lucky enough to have a bottom that repays you with pleasure, treat it gently and with respect and it will pleasure you for life. To those who doubt, try it and if it does nothing for you, it's OK but sad that you are missing out.
Any fellow with a girlfriend who likes the feeling of a finger up her bottom is a lucky man. If the man likes it too, fantastic! The anus of both male and female is supplied with nerves that generate pleasure and can produce an orgasm. Going deeper in, a man has a prostate gland which can be stimulated and massaged from inside the rectum and the woman has a G spot which can also be stimulated in the same way. Leaving aside the prostate and G spot for a moment, real pleasure can be experienced by anal stimulation through a finger or a similar sized object gently being stroked in and out using good lubrication. Exquisite pleasure can also be experienced if a small object about the size and length of a cigarette or standard enema nozzle is inserted into the bottom and is then sat down upon. Small movements on the seat, too small to be detected, will give rise to a very pleasurable feeling which will continue throughout the time the device is being "worn." In fact this can be so pleasurable that the "wearer" will soon prefer to keep this up his/her bottom all day and maybe all night except for toilet visits. The important thing is that the device should not be prone to slip out at the wrong moment! So many websites show violent anal activity which is no good for the participant and can be very harmful. Just do everything gently with lubricant (not very much if the device is being "worn" during the day) If you are lucky enough to have a bottom that repays you with pleasure, treat it gently and with respect and it will pleasure you for life. To those who doubt, try it and if it does nothing for you, it's OK but sad that you are missing out.
Forget what you were told by your mother who may have had a bias, and your religious education was probably biased as well. FACT:- The anus has a large number of neurons, most of which are very sensitive to pain, AND pleasure. OK so avoid pain but the anus is proficient at giving pleasure either in passing faecies, of receiving a scratch. The scratch gets more intensive and the recipient realises they are receiving pleasure from it. Go deeper, and both males and females can have an orgasm! That's absolutely honest, and from experience. Anal pleasuring is historically recorded and animals do it so it is natural. Experiment, but empty the bowel first and preferably wear a rubber glove. Otherwise the anus has less germs than the mouth! (Would I lie? Dr.Goodlove)
I have always liked the feeling of having a finger or other similar object inserted up my bum and I have always wished I could find a girl who liked having an object up her bum as well. Unfortunately, I have never spoken to anyone who likes this, let alone a girl. I believe many people like the feeling of an object pushed up their bottom but do not like to broach the subject. Gentleness is the name of the game with plenty of slippery lubricant. It is very unkind of anyone to simply ram a finger up another's bum without their permission and without lubricant and gentleness. The bum is the most sensitive part of the body and can give the owner a heavenly feeling if done properly.
Some women like it - me and my fiance enjoy anal play - it feels good for some people. Although, did you know that men have a g-spot in their anus? So it could feel good for you if you learned how to do it properly.
I just LOVE my guy to stick his finger up my arse and wiggle it up and down (thrusting mostion)!!
I just LOVE my guy putting his finger up my bum and giving it the in and out motion!
cool...Lube at the ready!! LOL
