Okay so here is the dealz. Well right now I have a mom and a dad. Right? But the thing is he is not my real dad. My real dad basically got my mom pregnant and left. He saw me once when I was 3 weeks old and then never again. He did ask my mom to marry him but she said no. Because he was aparently a pathelogical lier or sumthin. But I really want to locate him. Last time I heard he was working at a gas station but that was like 3 years ago. I have told my mom this and she said she would help but that was like last year and she has'nt tried anything yet. I havnt told my dad that I wanted to meet him because I no it would make him sad. But I at least want to no why he didnt keep in touch. And like what does he look like, I want to no if I look like him or not because I sure as hell dont look like my mom. I like dont even no how old he is. Its not like I want jeff to be a father to me, I just want to no if I have any other brothers or sisters out there and maybe have a friendship or sumthing with jeff. I just want to get to no him. I just want to no some background info, like what culture I come from and what not.. So does anybody no if there is any way to find someone you are looking for. Like I no he is'nt in the phone book, is there any other way to find a number? Or like an address, or workplace or anything? I need some ideas, anyways please try and help. Thanks.
You can go on zaba search and maybe get lucky. You also need to find out information like what his mother and fathers name is. His age. What city he is from. You can find people as long as you know things about them. It may take some time but it can be done. Just prepare yourself for him. He may or may not want to see or talk to you. He may be afraid of being put in jail over child support. There are tons of reasons. Yet I do know how frustrating it is as a kid to not know simple things you should about your father and your family. I wish you luck on your journey to your father.
the best place to start is with your mothers family... if she says she's willin to help you but doesn't do anything, ask around your family, I can almost guarantee someone will know something. I just met my dad in November.. my mom would never ever talk about him no matter what and it made my childhood pretty rough... When I got really curious I started asking everyone questions and they were all willing to share the info with me. Just tell them you think it's time and you want to know.
Best of luck ~Tiffany~