My fiance likes to fight

You need to leave this guy. First of all… YOUR 14 YEARS OLD DATING A 21 YEAR OLD. Does that not sound wrong to you? Second of all… he will hit you eventually, he has an anger problem. You need to leave him now for your own safety. Hes a failure.

he has never laid a hand on me..and we are not both young just m he is 21 but he is on probation right now for fighting! I just dont want him to get hurt and I know he wouldnt ever let me around that

Yes does he fight you or just pick fights with others? Because if he were to ever hurt you, that should be it, leave him.

Leave him dollface. Honestly, your health isn’t worth the risk. If you are afraid he will abuse you in any way, or he has, get far away fast! That is not okay.

don’t want to sound harsh or anything, but reading your other posts… this is what normally happens with teen pregnancies… the two of you are young, and having him not hold the evidence that he’s soon to have a baby… makes things hard and emotional for you!! you’re the one carring the baby, you’re the one that will need to gain weight, you’re the one who’ll be going through hormonal changes!!! NOT HIM!! he’s the one that will be absolutely fine and normal and because he is… he should watch over you and care for you!! cause that’s what YOU need the most!! his support!! and if he dosn’t understand that!!… I’d do what bettyfish23, has told you to do - dump him!!

likes to fight YOU? or likes to get in fights with other people? if you’re in an abusive relationship, get outta there. don’t be dumb. but if he just likes to get into fights with people, than that’s his hobby. a little aggression is good for ya. make sure you take into account though, that if he gets into a fight while you’re around him, you could get hurt, too. use some common sense, evaluate the situation, and act accordingly.