fighting with my mom ://

ok well I got into a big fight with my mom and we’re not talking and if we do we always end up fighting and it starts a big chaos so I just walk away and I’m sick of fighting with her I’ve had enough with that with my dad I don’t need it from my mom either :// last sunday I had my party and well it didn’t go nothing how it planned and I had told my friend I was having the worst day of my life and my mom had over heard and she just tells me I’m ungrateful and I don’t deserve nothing because I’m supposley never happy and I am very grateful she made me my party and she wasted a lot of money and I told her I’m sorry so many time and I understand I hurt her but in da same time she’s really hurting me right now I don’t have a dad now I’m in da verge of losing my mom and she does’nt understand how I feel at all and I try telling her how I feel but all she says is I don’t have time for this and it pisses me off I don’t know so I’m not talking to her and when she calls me she yells at me I don’t know what to do please help ://

Answer #1

I’m 13 by the way turnin 14 in a couple of days and I don’t know I do want to run away and go with a friend where my mom wont find me but in a way I kinda know she’s going to find me :// and well I don’t know how long this is going to last and this never happened with my older sister my mom has never acted like this she’s just being cruel and cold hearted and I hate her and I wish I could never see her again I’m just so mad I don’t know what to do I wish I never lived…

Answer #2

be patient honey give her time to cool off…running away will only make life worse for you…I don’t know how old you are or if where you live…but young teenagers can’t even get a job to support themselves…and in the bigger cities runaways especially girls can get really hurt out in the streets…pimps target young runaway girl and make them prostitute themselves for lil money and they turn you out to drugs…worse you could get raped or killed…you are way better off dealing with mom then the living the street life…one day you will look back and you will either be glad you stayed with mom or regret that you ran away…please just be patient with mom and stay home…you don’t want to live a life of regret…if you ever just need someone to vent to I don’t mind hearing you out…add me as a friend if you want

Answer #3

Welcome to the life of every teenager on this planet… I couldnt stand my mother for years… We have both come to an understanding… I have stopped taking everything she says to heart, and she’s stopped saying as many things… There is never one person at fault in a relationship. So perhaps you want to look at what you’re doing to keep the cycle going… And just wait it out. You’re not losing your mother. This too shall pass. It just takes time and a little bit of growing up and things will get better. Which is practically impossible to believe at your age, but try and have faith at the very least…

Answer #4

I’m so sorry things are not going so well with your mother and your father is not around. I have a teenage daughter and her father isn’t around either. I know that at times we disagree and she storms off to her room and cries and I get frustrated. some times she hurts my feelings and I’m sure I hurt hers but you have to let every minute that is the past be the past. I’m big on forgiveness so when I know I’ve hurt her I hug her and hold her for a little while and tell her I love her…don’t wait for your mother to do this to you, you can hug her too and just tell her you love her and don’t bring up the past. for me its the greatest feeling when my daughter hugs me after an argument and she says she loves me

Answer #5

I tell her I love her and I don’t tell her often but since we’ve been fighting I tell her I’m sorry and I love her but all she says is yea right and my mom would never I mean never hug me and tells me she loves me :’( as much as I’d really want that she’d never do that it really hurts…and I just stay in my room 24/7 I really hate and my real b’day is coming up in seven days and I don’t know wats going to happen I’m just really mad,sad,and confused I don’t know what to do :”‘’(

Answer #6

well since your mom is a single parent she probably feels like she has a lot of stress on her try seeing things her way and tell her you understand and then explain things how you see it but if you cant talk to her then try writing her a letter

Answer #7

relatives I can’t my aunt is pregnant with 2 kids and her husband is a drunk,my grandma I can’t either because my grandpa is a grump, and well my other uncle lives in another city so it’s impossible I don’t know I’m pretty miserable right now I really want to run away like hard core I just want to leave and never come back…

Answer #8

my mom was the same way

I couldnt take it anymore

so I moved in with my dad

if things are really bad

maybe you should try to move in with a relative

Answer #9

Fighting isnt right

try to just be calm

if something she ays makes you feel bad

dont show it

try to be nicer to her

and just do that for a while and maybe things will get better

Answer #10

Don’t even worry to much because I know how all of you feel in a way. It seems like my mom and I always argue, but in the end it becomes like yesterday’s news. Everyone disagrees from time to time because lets face it will live in the real world! But I know one thing that always brings my mom and I back into good standing and that is love. So maybe in the middle of an argument you can tell your mom you love her. I know it sounds crazy but love does conquer all. -Good Luck Tanisha

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