Feeling betrayed

About a month and a half after I�d started school the amount of time I was able to spend with my girlfriend had dwindled dramatically. She started spending more time with her friends. One friend in particular of about three months named Brad.

My girlfriend came to me one day and told me that Brad had told her that he had feelings for her. Needless to say when I learned of this I was none to happy. I wanted her to break all contact with the guy but she promised she�d handle it. I didn�t like it but I told her I trusted her to take care of it and left it alone.

About a week later I brought up how her conversation with Brad had gone and she broke down crying saying that she hadn�t told me the whole story. Apparently, Brad had been asking her out on and off for weeks and at one point she�d told Brad that she had feelings for him. She told me that she was confused when she told him that. She said I hadn�t been around near as much since I started going to school and he was basically a shoulder to cry on. She swears that she loves only me�but she still wants to remain in contact with Brad.

I made it painfully clear that I did not want Brad around any more, but again she swears that she only loves me and that Brad is only a good friend that she doesn�t want to lose. We�ve been going over and over this for about a week now. Her best friend is telling her its unfair of me to expect her to dump a friend and I should trust her. That I should know she�s not going any where. I love her more than anything on this earth but this is truly killing me. I need some advice.