How would you feel if your best friend goes to your family members to find out information about you that you have already told them?

personally i would be offended too, well it really depends on what the information was exactly… but still i would confront them on it and see what they would say there reasoning was behind it. personally i wouldnt tell them much anymore after that

I agree, I too would be offended dearly. :( If that best friend doesnt trust you enough to accept what you have said so much so they need to be reassured by your family members, it should make you wonder if they are really a best friend to begin with! Another reason for that might be due to lack of trust, nothing to do with you, simply everything to do with them & their issues. I would talk to that person though & verify why the need to reassure themselves to begin with & make it clear that if they cant second guess you like that then perhaps it would be best to merely get to know one another better before calling one another best friends!

Me? I would feel appalled. I would feel as though they didn’t trust me when I told them, and for them to go to your family and be sniffin’ about in your business.. just proves they’re a piss poor listener and a nosey rat.

I would feel a bit upset if they had no reason not to trust me. However, sometimes this situation will feel inevitable to a friend because you have lied about other things in the past and they don’t know what to believe anymore. Like ‘the boy who cried wolf’, they would never know what was thr truth and what was not. If you seem to have a lot of ‘drama’ in your life, or a tendency to exaggerate, then doubt can be natural. If you have been noting but honest with them in the past though then you would be right to feel offended by them.

You have nothing to hide anyway if you are honest, so although it would be annoying, it should not be a massive deal, I would just find out their reasons for doing it and talk about it with them. It could be that they were not checking up on you at all, but just saw a family member and mentioned it to them in some cases. If I was in that situation, I would just talk to them like I said.

Break such a friendship, as a good friendship is based on the foundation of trust.

pissed. what nonsence?