Why is it that family is so unsupportive...

Why is it that family is so unsupportive… My life is already hard enough… Sure im 13 but teens do have feeling too… My dream was to go to this perfect private high school but whenever I bring the topic up they would not let me go there…arent family suppose to support you? If it was to be a finiancial issue …the school could help us…it a boarding school They can pay for all of it… Why is it that sometime I feel like im a stranger at someone house that I dont even know?… My parent are both death…am I that unlucky? Whenver I talk about my feeling…I could just never find someone to listen… Life is so complicated…

Why cant I just end it easily…

Answer #1

Ok…If you are talking about commiting suicide…DON’T. A girl at the high school just did on Saturday. The HS and MS are right next to each other and we share the same bus. I didn’t really know her. I think I may have talked to her a few times and I definatly reconized her by face. I’m so upset, and thats just me, a person who was not close to her at all. She was a twin, and I can’t imagine how her twin must be feeling. No matter how bad things seem right now, it will not always be like that. Think about all of the hot guys you will never get to meet. All of the experiances you will miss. And you said that you can never find anybody to listen to you…I will! I promise you I will answer back and talk to you. I may not be good at giving this kind of advice, but I really can listen. Please, just don’t commit suicide, it’s just not the way to go. live a long life, and if you want to, just leave your house as soon as you legally can. Move far away, meet you dream husband, have kids, raise them, then get grand children. I promise you, this will pass and you will be fine. You’ll get over what is making you upset and 10 years from now you will be so happy that you never commited suicide. I’m open to talk to you when ever you need to. I’m on this site pretty much every day. It will be fine. Funmail me if you want to talk. And shamboyolic…how dare you. You call her spoiled. Don’t even talk if your going to be rude. Little things like that that you just said may have a bigger impact than you think. Please don’t even pay attention to that ridiculous comment bunnehdoll.

Answer #2

im 15, and sure teenagers have problems, but familys do that kind of thing to protect u, im sure they have a good reason. your family loves you, weather you believe it or not. In this economy, schools cant afforc to let kids in for free, and your parent s might really not be able to afford it. were having the same issue in my family. so good luck. and remember they luv u

Answer #3

because every 1’s here for a reaison and you shoundnt just end it all because of a few things I have a hard life to and a lot of things are still going wrong all you need to do is beleave in your self and dont lisent to people like the girl a bove me and if you need some 1 to talk to you can funmail me I will lisen to you I know ow you feel and you do need some 1 to vent it all to

Answer #4

Have you ever stopped to think that they might not want you to go to that provate school because they don’t want to be away from you. As annoying and frustrationg it may be to be around each other, you guys are still a family and maybe they feel that it will missing a link if you are not there. The best thing to do is have a family meeting and talk your feelings out. That’s kind of how we work it out in our family and it does wonders even if is sounds kind of stupid to have family meetings.

Answer #5

I’m sure it’s not that they’re unsupportive - most probably it’s a financial situation with the unsure economy - you know they love you, try to look after your and the family’s bests interests and they care…so, don’t worry, be Thankful.

Answer #6

thank you…

Answer #7

thank everyone… it feel better to talk about things…it not just only about this suitation…it about everything…they are never supportive…whenever I look at other family I got jealous because they have such a nice family…like today when I was waiting to be pick up I see this girl she was just sitting there waiting to be pickup she seem so careless…while me im scared that I might get yell at when I got home…and whatever I do …my family always think it pathethic…unuseful…stupid… sometime they call me rude just because I react to something like when I got mad that they didnt allow me to apply to that highschool I slamp the apllication on the table and then they call me a rude brat and that eversince I go to that school I became a little brat…god I dont want to see them and just go to sleep and never wake up

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