Falling for him or just thinking that?

For a while I thought I was crushing on my boyfriend’s best friend- Steven. And it was all good until a few days ago. Ever since December, I’ve only seen him twice: the first time was alright, but the second time? We didn’t even acknowledge each other.

I don’t even know why I keep thinking about him! For goodness sakes, I don’t know anything about him. For the past 3 weeks, I keep seeing his name everywhere and everyday. Its driving me crazy!

This is what puzzles me most: Why do I care? I already have my boyfriend- he’s the most amazing guy I’ve met: more than what I’ve ever wanted in a guy. Then why do I keep thinking of Steven? I don’t know much about him. I know that both guys have two major differences: my boyfriend is mellow and laid back while steven is outgoing.

Is that it?

I don’t know what I see in this guy- hes not very good looking, hes kinda plain, and… well I dont know what else.

I really don’t want to like him, but I think I can’t hide the fact that I do.

Help? :(

Answer #1

What you have is an infatuation with someone and the thought of it feels good in your mind. Sometimes this happens to the best of us and can go as quickly as it comes.

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