Fake Friendship

I had a friend who I hung around for almost the entire school year. I thought we were close friends because we would talk a lot after school and just have a great time. Although sometimes it was weird because he would nick name me ‘cutie pie’ or put his arm around me while walking down the hallway. I know he didn’t like me because he did that to other girls so it wasn’t a big deal. We hugged everytime we saw each and I thought that ment we were friends. Well on the last week of school he said he wanted to hang out over the summer. It was fine and a couple of weeks later I decided to try and ask if he still wanted to but he would always say ‘maybe.’ Well thats fine we could still talk by phone right? well I tried to do that but he changed his character each time I tried talking with him. He would go from asking if we could cuddle and say he had feelings for me (like he actually liked me).Then the next time around when I try to talk with him he would seem not wanting to talk much. He finally decided to dismiss me as a friend because he clams that I freak out too much. I waited a few weeks to finally confront him and he just said we were cool. Finally I guess we aren’t friends anymore because he told me goodbye Fallen and hasn’t spoken in over a month. What happend? Why would a guy say were friends and then decide to drop me? Please help

Answer #1

People are in our lives for either a reason, a season, or a lifetime. He sounds like one of the first two. Ditch him and find a friend who’ll give you a real friendship.

Answer #2

honey, you dont need friends like him anyway, sounds like you were just another loop on the chain another pretty girl for his guy friends to see his arm around, ifs he not true, then he shouldnt be with you

Answer #3

I know but I’m like one of those people that have a hard time letting go of things especially friends. I’m not going to talk to him ever again because yeah I know he wasn’t real friend (even though I sometimes fool myself and give him excuses). Its hard also because I know that I may never see this guy ever again because hes going off to college. Its really sad because I will have no way of knowing if hes ok or not. Thats the only thing that really worries me about him. Like even if he wasn’t a real friend you still want to know if that person is ok right? I don’t know I’m insane

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