For example, when people say that being gay is because they have it in the genes, or they were born that way, so a thief or a shameless person can use the same argument well im a thief, because its in my genes i can control it and so on, please dont get me wrong nothing against gay people just curiosity about this.
Stealing is a behavior and as such people have control over it. They may choose to do it anyway, but the possible control is still there. The same for people being a-holes, or rude, or other behaviors. Having a sexual preference ...just ... is. In the same way that you - fito - are attracted to girls, someone who is gay is attracted to others of the same gender. And just as YOU are unlikely to ever be talked out of your heterosexualness, likewise someone who is gay can't be talked, argued, or prayed away from their sexual preferences.
Theirs choose their actions from a young age, wether it be a parent problem at home of where they grew up or just cuz they are bored or try to get away with as much as possible. I am bisexual and I just love real people. I don't have a prefference. I have had more crushes on guys but still. I can't change it even if I tried which why would I want to change?
Being gay and being a thief are two completely different things. People aren't BORN thieves, thieves don't carry a "thief gene", so they don't make "thieving babies". Being attracted to someone of the same sex is something that occurs biologically.
comparing being gay and being a thief is kind of ridiculous to be honest. Being a thief hurts other people, being gay doesn't in any shape or form. Your logic is extremely EXTREMELY flawed.