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EX boy and CURRENT boy!

ok so I just broke up with my boyfriend, but the thing is that it wasnt because we wanted to, its because we had to. (parental units are wack jobs) so I basically cant be with him for a long time, but I think in the end im gonna be with him, but theres this boy I have a cute crush on and I heard for a fact that he plans to ask me out, the thing is that im not sure if im gonna say yes because I dont wanna date him and find that im only dating him to get over my last boyfriend and hurt this boy. but I feel that if I do say yes that my last boyfriend (whos like my best friend now) that this will hurt him greatly and thats the last thing I would ever wanna do, so if I said yes how should I tell him, and should I even say yes to this boy??? HELP IS APPRECIATED!

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Answer #1

it woudn’t be fair to your crush if it’s only because you want 2 get over your ex is the reason your dating him. your not ready for another person right now because if you involve urself with another guy your just going to confused urself and your going’ to end up hurting both of the guys even urself so the best thing I think right now is for you to just stay friend with your crush until you knoe that your totally over with your ex.

Answer #2

ok but what if hes not planning to ask me out RIGHT now..like in one or two months to give me time…sorry I meant to add that

Answer #3

Well if he likes your best friend then go ahead.

See how things go, and if you think you are just using this guy to get over your previous boyfriend, then you can just leave and say you can’t do it anymore. Plus both of you have new crushes anyways, I’d go for it.

Answer #4

If you like the boy and want 2 date him then say yes. If your just trying 2 get over your ex then no dont say yes. & if you do decide to date him just tell your ex that you really like this other guy and that you dont want 2 hurt him but you r going 2 date him and c how things go.

Answer #5

You said you JUST broke up… so maybe you should refrain from dating anyone for a while.

ok but what if hes not planning to ask me out RIGHT now..like in one or two months to give me time…

Well… see how you feel about it in a few months…

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