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By the way, Teens use the term 'frigid' incorrectly and as an insult to other girls whop refuse to sleep around.
The real meaning of Frigid is a proper medical condition where the girl CANNOT get turned on even with a guy or partner that she fancies.
The condition is such that the woman does not get wet or feel sexual at all.
The term is used by teens wrongly towards girls who just dont happen to have a boyfriend, who dont feel ready for sex or because they wont have sex with guys just because they click their fingers.
In their case, they CHOOSE not to have sex. In the case of a REAL frigid female, they can get turned on or get wet even if they wanted to.
A huge difference.
Sorry, but I just get annoyed when teens use this word as an insult to other teens and teen guys sometimes use it to shame a girl into having sex because they dont want friends calling them frigid.
Kiasu
So... your problem is... what then? That your friends call you frigid, or that you don't have a boyfriend?
You're not that old --- 14? Not having a boyfriend DOES NOT make you frigid!
The question you should ask youself is why they would be using that term towards you? Then, depending on what you come up with, you can ask yourself, if I wanted a boyfriend, does this reason keep them away?
In the mean time --- I always ask "who IS everyone anyways!" and what do they think they really know!!!???!!!
there's nothing wrong with being perceived as frigid.. it's a good thing! would you rather everyone thinks you're a slut? don't do anything, just ignore them, the whole 'she's so frigid' stage won't last that much longer you're 14. ignore them.
