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How do I talk my mom into letting me out the house? She says she cant trust me. I havent done anything for her to NOT trust me. I need some techniques on gaining her “trust” back and some ways to sweet talk her into going to other peoples houses. Can you help me?

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Answer #1

1.) Tell your boyfriend “NO” to sex right now. 2.) Start having him come over to your house so your Mom can get to know him, and see that he is a good guy. — Or maybe he isn’t a good guy and your Mom senses that, and THAT is a reason she doesn’t let you out of the house. 3.) Realize that 14 is too young for sex. Why are you even letting your boyfriend get away with talking about it? 4.) If you still insist on having sex at your early age, make sure to use condoms. And do NOT let him talk you into … “Just the tip”, or “I’ll pull out”, or “Just for a little while”. These are ALL lame games that young guys say that can ALL get you pregnant if he isn’t wearing a condom before his wiener touches you.

My daughter had a friend who was pregnant at 14 from doing that sort of thing.

In short, the best way of gaining your Mother’s trust, is to actually earn it.

Good Luck!!

Answer #2

Sit down with her and ask her seriously why she doesnt think she can trust you, if she give you a valid answer then you should try to earn her trust over time. If she doesnt give you a valid answer then you should tell her that you will continue to go out until she actually can give a reason for not letting you go out.

Hope

I helped :)

Answer #3

Thanks but I wasnt talkin about sex right now. I just want to go to my friends house.

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