Engagment?

Why would you want to get engaged? It’s such an adult thing to do. Why not stay boyfriend and girlfriend and keep acting like kids as oppose to try and be all “mature” when you’re not ready.

I agree with hubbberz my boyfriend and I met when I turned 14…im now about to be 17 and hes proposing next month…he just wants to ask my dad for my hand first…yay!!! there have been rough patches…but if you truly love this guy…then go for it…and remember…if it dosent work out call it off…ure not married after all…but the monogomy and the sense that you will be will make your relationship a lot more commited.also being engaged dosent include sex …so dont till your ready you are still so young. hope this helps -v-

I don’t think its a good idea. I still think I’m way too young to get engaged and I’m 18-years-old. At 14-years-old you aren’t committed enough to deal with engagement. Also I don’t see why you would get engaged 4 years before you plan on actually getting married. Of course you are all “we are going to be together forever”. But, think about how many 14-year-olds say that and how many actually turn out that way. Its a huge number difference. So don’t be in such a rush, if it happens it’ll happen when your old enough and mature enough.

Most people think they will be with their first love forever, and sometimes it happens, but usually it doesn’t. See how you feel in a few more years. Also, you should make sure that you both graduated college, are financially stable, etc. before you even think about getting married. If you are truly right for each other, you WILL be together. But you are so young and have the rest of your lives, there is no hurry. Wait and see how things develop over the next few years.

thats to young of a age to thank about geting marreid wait tell your like at least 18 or so

I personally think that if you are commited to the person and know that you are in love then its ok. But other wise I wouldnt advise it. Me and my fiancee have been enaged for a while now and are gettin married in about 3 months. I am so happy, we have been engaged since I was like 13 and its all perfect. I mean its all about the people in the realtionaship really.